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30 F Santa Monica, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 25
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a programmer by day, and a sexy bookworm by night.

I am a woman of many contradictions. At work I'm a natural leader, but when it comes to relationships, I am much more old-fashioned. I'm a southern girl at heart, so I'm sweet and kind and I love to do things for other people. (Want some homemade cookies?) But underneath I have a backbone of steel and strong opinions.

I'm a bit of a nerd -- the blogs I read are mostly about cool new technologies and internet startups, and I can easily spend an hour arguing about the latest sci-fi or superhero flick with my coworkers. But I'm also a girly-girl. I love to read, and you'll find a few dirty romance novels mixed in the five (yes, five!) bookcases in my apartment.

My favorite way to unwind after a long day is to put on my headphones and tennis shoes and hit the pavement. After a run, I feel like I can take on the world.

The man I'm looking for is smart, confident and isn't afraid to go after what he wants. I want a man who can teach me something, laugh with me, snuggle with me, travel with me, and find adventure with me. Because even though I may look like a good girl, you really shouldn't judge this book by its cover. ;)

Send me a message if you want to mix metaphors together or just want to have the greatest adventure of your life!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile! I'm one of those people who's usually smiling.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some of my favorite TV shows lately have been Homeland, Sherlock, Game of Thrones, Mad Men, and Battlestar Galactica (how did I not know about this show when it originally aired??!!).

My taste in movies runs through the entire spectrum. I love movies that make me think: dark dramas, documentaries, and anything historical. But I also love super-hero flicks and action movies - I loved Fast and the Furious 6 so much I saw it twice in the theater.

As for music, I'll admit it: I grew up in Texas, and my alarm clock is currently set to a country station. But that's not all I listen to! At work I love to listen to modern folk rock (like Mat Kearney and Matt Nathanson), alternative, and sometimes even pop.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Running shoes
Quiet weekend afternoons
A job I love
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I like to keep it low-key on Friday nights. I might go out and unwind over a glass of wine with friends, head out to a movie, go on a run by the beach, or curl up in bed with a book -- I just need someone to curl up with!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I'm driving alone, I often sing along to the radio at the top of my lungs, and very badly. :)