37 Santa Ana, CA
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My self-summary
I think I am a good guy. I adore my family, friends, work, travel, novelty, the outdoors, green lights, affection, snuggling, honesty, charity, food, laughing, reading, travel, hot sauce, coffee, fleeting moments of insight, and the color blue.

I feel like people need to cover the normal, primary bases of affection in this part. Who doesn't want to put their best foot forward? I guess I can disclose my inadequacies from here on out... But really I don't know you that well. Technically you are a stranger and I shouldn't even be taking candy from the likes of you. But we might hit it off. Unless you're not pleased with the narrative so far. JK. You are. I know you are. You may have been forming some critical sentiments... but you're still reading. I'm not even asking you to at this point. Yet, here you are reading in an almost smug defiant manner. That's kinda hot. Okay, well, clearly you are flirting with me if you are still reading, when you know how it makes me feel. Actually, you are coming on a little strong now... Wow, you are persistent. Have you been drinking? Are you always this forward? I'm almost a little uncomfortable now. Perhaps You should consider messaging me your apology.

Sorry, I might have read that situation wrong. Now, I'm the one sounding forward. I didn't mean to offend your sense of Jane Austen-esque propriety, you are likely a very mild mannered person who reads a lot. Well, clearly you do. I already like that about you. That's kind of cute...
This writing about yourself thing sure feels like slow-motion improv.
What I’m doing with my life
Since finishing grad school I have had the luxury of helping others playfully muddle through existential conflicts and life's challenges.
I’m really good at
I am a prolific speculator. I have always been great at that, making puppets, street performing, drums, sculpting, drawing and art in general (because I love it). Also, I'm good at looking busy, appearing deep in thought, and getting along with animals who also look deep in thought, and self defeating magic tricks.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, dimples, humor, familiar voice, confident stride, vocabulary and fucked up hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Untangle this knot:
Been into the band The Cat Empire recently. Love the pixies, Wye Oak, wax tailor, devotchka, magnetic fields, 80's, Lambchop, Tom Waits Lana Del Rey, ....
I've learned that music serves a different function for each gender, weird huh?
The unbearable lightness of being,
anything by Alan Watts, Antoine de Saint-Exupery, Paul Ekman, Sedaris, Dr. Seuss, Silverstein, Christopher Moore, Stumbling on Happiness, Heinze Kohut, errrr ummmmm......
Movies: Big Lebowski, Being there, The man who would be king, the three amigos, Road side profits, top secret,
The six things I could never do without
Lists of things that I can not do without,
words with which to fill out those lists,
content to organize my words for those lists,
An intellectual hunger to complete lists,
A false sense of superiority in avoiding an honest answer to such lists,
A genuine sense of regret for not answering questions when I reach the last one. Damn it. That's
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What other people might be thinking about or what they might think I'm thinking about them, or what I think they might think about what I'm thinking they are thinking. I also wonder about the utility of Oxford commas. maybe someday meeting a woman that I can share life, affection, challenges, adventures, and maybe one day family. Someone to live an authentically beautiful life with.
On a typical Friday night I am
.....doing top secret things that are on a need to know basis only. Very Top Secret.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I actually like long walks on the beach.
You should message me if
If it seems right or at the far end, only ambiguously wrong.