Safe sex is pretty much the only thing that is non-negotiable. You have to strap/wrap it up before you hit it. Well, that and I kinda lose my interest if you want to go at it in your unsuspecting partner's bed. It's an uncontrollable turnoff for me. Sorry, no judgement, if that's your thing--i'm just not the lady for you.
I'm white if that matters to you, but I removed ethnicity in my profile bc ok cupid was only recommending white folks in my searches. Magically my search results and visitors got more diverse when I did that. not cool, okc.
for searchability, let's toss in... BBW
This is a work in progress, one bit at a time, as I have time...