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allweatherh

39 Philadelphia, PA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:57pm
Orientation
Bisexual, Pansexual, Queer
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Student
Income
Status
Single
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a queer fat femme. If you aren't into ethical nonmonogamy, body positive folks, and safer sex, we're not going to get along too well. I date people of all genders.

I'm still reeling a little from breaking up with a super long term serious partner, so I'm not trying to develop anything really intense! I'll do me, you do you, and maybe we shoot each other some moral support to do the things we want to get done.

In short, right now I am mainly looking for something that is easiest to understand as friends with benefits: lots of fun, lots of friendship, some shared meals. If I really fall for you, you can have my Tuesday night for as long as you want it, but no co-parenting or cohabitation is on the menu here.

I'm white if that matters to you, but I removed ethnicity in my profile because okcupid was recommending an avalanche of white folks in my searches, which is not what I would expect given my geography. Magically my search results and visitors got more diverse when I did that. Not cool, okc.

for searchability, let's toss in... BBW

This is a work in progress, one bit at a time, as I have time...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
number crunching, teaching, laughing, reading technical statistical things, driving, pondering.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Meeting people where they are
Being present one on one
Collaborating on small pleasures
Sucking the marrow out of life
Keeping my drama (which is minimal anyway) out of yours
Laughing instead of crying
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love narrative, humor, and/or insight in my books and film, whether it's a scholarly thing or something fictional. I dig at least some artists from all genres of music (yes ALL, including rap and country and classical/opera). I like variety and do not believe our shared (or disparate) tastes will make or break anything. Expose me to something new or delight me with an unexpected shared love for something obscure, it's all good!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How people make meaning
How to meet my (and maybe your) needs for basic survival as well as joy (bread AND roses)
Bodies
Academic crap
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing the stuff in the 'I'm good at' section. Even if I'm working, I'm at least laughing about it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am hopeless at lying.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like fat girls and casual-ish sex and have some experience with ethical nonmonogamy.

Note that I get a lot of messages and if you are a <70% match, you better bring your message game or it will get lost with the other not-high-match messages.