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39 Philadelphia, PA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Strictly anything
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a queer fat chick currently engaged in the painful process of ending a 15+ year relationship with a woman. Right now I am mainly looking for friends with benefits: lots of fun, nothing serious!

Safe sex is pretty much the only thing that is non-negotiable. You have to strap/wrap it up before you hit it. Well, that and I kinda lose my interest if you want to go at it in your unsuspecting partner's bed. It's an uncontrollable turnoff for me. Sorry, no judgement, if that's your thing--i'm just not the lady for you.

I'm white if that matters to you, but I removed ethnicity in my profile bc ok cupid was only recommending white folks in my searches. Magically my search results and visitors got more diverse when I did that. not cool, okc.

for searchability, let's toss in... BBW

This is a work in progress, one bit at a time, as I have time...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Meeting people where they are
Being present one on one
Collaborating on small pleasures
Sucking the marrow out of life
Keeping my drama (which is minimal anyway) out of yours
Laughing instead of crying
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love narrative, humor, and/or insight in my books and film, whether it's a scholarly thing or something fictional. I dig at least some artists from all genres of music (yes ALL, including rap and country and classical/opera). I like variety and do not believe our shared (or disparate) tastes will make or break anything. Expose me to something new or delight me with an unexpected shared love for something obscure, it's all good!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How people make meaning
How to meet my (and maybe your) needs for basic survival and joy (bread AND roses)
Academic crap
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing the stuff in the 'I'm good at' section. Even if I'm working, I'm at least laughing about it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am hopeless at lying.
You should message me if
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You like fat girls and casual sex.