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45 F Montebello, CA

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Last Online
Jan 31, 2012
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
English (Fluently), Indonesian (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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eenie meenie miney mo, anybody serious around here??

warm greetings from BALI, a beautiful tropical paradise in SouthEastAsia ...

I love my planet !!! And I wish every citizen of it to be always in the best joy .... today and forever ....

Warnings :
1. AM LIVING IN BALI, SE Asia, next to S'pore (timezone GMT +8). I put all different locations here just to widen my search. I can type LA, Washington, Miami, Venice, Paris etc anything I want. But i am actually in BALI, BALI, BALI!! SO DONT WRITE ME IF YOU THINK AM ANYWHERE NEAR YOU 'COZ AM NOT! DONT WRITE ME IF YOU CANT AFFORD OVERSEAS ROMANCE MENTALLY & FINANCIALLY. DONT WRITE JUST BECAUSE YOU LIKE MY PICTURES! AM NOT HERE LOOKING FOR FANS!
2. Dont write before you read thru my entire long profile.
3. Please care to give your name when you write me for you are NOT David Beckham! No-name note is RUBBISH.
4. Am here for serious stuff NOT just for fun.
5. Empty profile/no photo = blocked users.
6. No below 37 and above 53 please.
7. NO AWARDS & WINKS, please!

if you dislike my profile, dont waste time picking on me. save your energy for other daisies that take your fancy rather than writing me jerky note:) even if I hit your quiver box, you dont always have to respond me, just ignore!

otherwise, if you're still interested, welcome to my LONG profile and please note that this could take you a week to finish so grab some water and prepare energy now LOL


if you love me, like you tell me,
please be careful with my heart.
you can have it, just dont break it,
or my world will fall apart.
i search for my last romance,
and am willing to take the chance.
that till life is thru, I'd still be loving you.
i will be true to you,
so promise that you will too.
from the very start,
please be careful with my heart:)

We don't know what we have until we lose it, but it is also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

There comes a point in your life when you realize:
Who matters,
Who never did,
Who won't anymore...
And who always will.
So, don't worry about people from your past,
there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.

Be careful of what you desire. Women of sex are toys, women of beauty are trophies, women of asset are investments, women of charm are collectibles but only women of faith are TREASURES:)

Built in 1969 but still in mint condition:), am a happy single mom with an adorable 9yrs son who lives with me. I have no rubbish nor silly drama from past, only sweetness:) My son is everything to me in life, he comes the second after God. so if you think he is a baggage instead of a bless, you can talk to my hands! To me the anti-kids are lower than animals because even the most evil beasts have love for their little ones:)

My friends describe me as a good combo of idyllic family woman and social butterfly. I am the flame of fanfares but can also stay perfectly cool in solitude. My home is my palace :)

Am a princess of dawn, a morning person. I kick-start my day at the early hours and still fully-spirited all the way thru the night.
I love being active and quite a non-stop type that my friends nick-name me "energizer bunny" LOL

I love burning candles and incense; and I easily feel at home at places where I can smell the fragrant of fresh flowers around. Believe it or not, am more a country-girl than a city-girl :) and am a lousy shopper so malls hate me LOL.

Am pretty well-traveled and have been to various parts of the globe. I hold a valid passport and a multiple-entry US visa run until 2015 and good record for europe's schengen visa. (some of my pics here were from my Russian trip). But for sure my heart belongs to my country only.

God rocks, Religion sucks!! I dont care so much about religions but I love God and Jesus Christ is important for me:) God is NO WAY a product and Christianity is NOT a multi-level-marketing so please never come to me with bible scripts, i can read and digest it myself! I dont care you worship science, money or porn-star so please also leave me alone with what I believe:) Just like fashion, godliness is very personal so lets cherish our own preference and not fight about it:)

For me life is a marathon, NOT a sprint. I really see no need to compare myself to other people. I may have friends who are dating more guys or making more money than me. Am extremely HAPPY for them! The important thing is that I am embracing my own winning every single day, my own share of gains that I cherish and feel grateful for :)

I dont live to impress, I live to express. And I prefer to be joyful than happy because joy comes from within internally while happiness greatly depends on external factors. Joy is boundlessly miraculous, happiness is conditional.

I dont believe in Luck 'cuz everything happens always for a reason and with a purpose. I dont see the glass half empty NOR half full, I just think the glass is twice as bigger as it needs to be:) I dont live to impress but to express; and I am confident to be just myself.

I dont believe in "sex without love". There's no way I will let anyone masturbate using my genital. Am not a public toilet that you can freely sit on over a drop of some coins neither am an automobile that you must test-drive before buying!

Men of genius are admired, men of wealth are envied, men of power are feared but only men of character and faith are trusted. I dont believe in love at first sight for looks can deceive. I dont think Prince Charming & Mr Right exist for there is good & bad in everyone. However, while I wont give too much attention to your physic & wealth, I take seriously on how you live your present and shape your future, where you lay your end destination.

Love is like wine, it gets richer and worthier as it is aging, but we must care for the cellar where we keep it. And a successful relationship requires falling in love many many times, with the same person, but deeper and stronger every time, for there's NO limit to the beauty of our beloved.

I worship faithfulness so polyamourists, serial daters, one-night-standers and orgiers are definitely NOT FOR ME! Especially if you're a divorce-mania who can easily walk in and out of marriage just like in wallmarts, then go to other profile!

For me home sweet home means lots of tease and please; abundant joys and laughters; limitless family times and dates; never-ending loving moments and intimacy. I dont mind if you are handsome and rich, but if I (and our kids) must make appointment just to have 5 minutes with you, then forget it! Anyone trades love for wealth, deserves neither love or wealth.

Am not materialistic but also NOT naive! hey, love only will NOT pay the bills:) so if your best assets are skate-board & ipod; gym membercard and free McD vouchers, then you are definitely NOT for me :) I believe in HONEST & SAFE FINANCE, no cash no buy and I buy what I need NOT what I want. Been without credit card for almost 15 years and feel extremely good about it. So never take me on date using credit card! Am not proud being treated on debt!

Sure I make mistakes and at times can be stubborn, selfish, reckless and totally messy. But, if you can't handle me at my worst, then you simply don't deserve me at my best♥ Yes, exactly, am like a candy-bar: a half sweet, a half nuts LOL.

So the big message is : am 40+ who is proud just being myself. I have nothing to brag about myself though. Well, if I were that perfect then I wont be here searching:) So am just an ORDINARY girl :) do you mind?

Nevertheless, I appreciate process, for great things dont happen over-night, even Kate Middleton must wait LOL! so I won't expect you to propose me after 3 chats:) but am also not here to practise my english so if you are anti-commitment and just looking for fun, then don’t bother to contact me.

Thanks for having viewed this far. Still into it? Then scroll down and finish the novel ... God Bless Us!
PS: i have another profile here (alma-blanca) in case you come across it. hey nothings wrong with it:) its just like having 2 branches of office no??
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
am quite "a jack of all trades" but i find my biggest pride in parenting my son .... being a mother is one of the best things happened to me:)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making burgers and fruit jams ...... ask my son:)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
am a fire-cracker and chewing gum packed as one in mocha flavor LOL
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books : pocket-size best-seller stuff and anything that I wont be embarassed if my kid and friends would find in my drawers :)

movie : documentary, collosal epics (I love Ben-Hur and Babel!)

music : classical, gospel, jazz, latino, world-music. please NO rap!

food : am a picky foodie and I have weakness for almonds.

cooking, dancing and traveling are among my biggest passions. (ssst, see me in YouTube .. but dont laugh at it, very amateurly done LOL, personal recording just for fun :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
faith, faith, faith, faith, faith, faith.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why some men are so proud to brag about their dishonesty. i mean they are "available" which notably NOT SINGLE, "seeing someone" and even "married" ... but they advertise so eagerly for "dating" and even "casual sex" ....... and nothing racist, but they are mostly of 3 major asian races ....hmmm, now you know why i always put other locations on my profile header here ...

how funny, almost ALL men who tag themselves as "good-looking" and "handsome" are actually the ugly and the clumsy lol lol ...... and the real hot ones never have such tacky taglines :) ....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
cracking jokes and laughing my heart out with my girl-gang or having a cool date with my kid (we love culinary outing )
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I promise to reveal it all on our very first date :)
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 37–52
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are ABSOLUTE single
you are one-woman-man and NOT a marriage-cert fetish.
you are family-man i.e. a good father AND a good husband.
you dont see divorce as a way-out in anyway.
you are successful but NOT married to your job / career.
you are into multi-culture, have passion in overseas travels and can afford LDR (both mentally and financially).

homo/bi/sick-sexuals, one-night-standers, orgiers, polyamourists and serial daters NEED NO APPLY. I also dont welcome anti-kids and anti-Gods.

Oh, if I may share some tips:
when you write someone, at least give your name, thats the very basic courtesy:) and please say something instead of hello and smiley icon:) in my case, am not here to practise english and this is not the site where you can order women by numbers!! so please mind your acts:)

Again, thanks a lot for having viewed this far, please excuse my "funny" english (its not my first language). am sorry if I have caused you dehydrated with my lengthy profile essay (its sure wrtitten for pulitzer LOL). .... have a glass of water, take a deep breath and before you decide to write me, may I remind you again : I AM IN BALI, SOUTH EAST ASIA.