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alobarmusic

38 M Newport, RI

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Indonesian (Okay), Hindi (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So here's me in a nut-shell: traveler, adventurer, musician, comedian, songwriter, optimist, visionary, successful entrepreneur.

I moved to Newport recently from New Orleans where I was playing music and embracing the spirit of that incredible city!!! I'm originally from Western Mass, wanted to move back to New England, and love feeling the four distinct seasons as they keep me tuned in to time passing and constant change. I've really been enjoying making fires in my fireplace here all winter long.

I own and operate my own small business, and wouldn't have it any other way! I love the challenges and the flexibility.

What makes me tick:
* Music - making music with others; I'm a guitarist/singer-songwriter, and also play Tabla from India, the Bansuri and Saluang (flutes from India and Sumatra) ; writing music and lyrics; singin' out loud in the sunshine.
* Hangin' with my dog, Babu - a mellow chocolate lab, a hell of a swimmer and a total squirrel hound!!!
* The great outdoors! - surfing, swimming, hiking, running, roller-blading, baseball, basketball, camping, biking, skiing, kayaking, and pond ice skating and hiking with my pooch.
* Travel, especially in "developing" countries where if wealth were measured by the number of smiles a person has in their lifetime vs. the amount of rupees they own, they'd be considered much wealthier than we are here in the U.S.
* Maintaining that travel state-of-mind when all is a fresh, awe-filled experience.
* Striking up random conversations with strangers and connecting.
* Staying up late into the quietness of the early morning hours with an inspiring book or my guitar.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying it!!! Taking in and exploring Rhode Island and New England; Making new friends here; Playing and writing music; Traveling; Owning and running a small business; Hangin' out with my dog.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Living in different cultures. Being spontaneous, connecting with strangers, taking things lightly, communicating.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my eyes, and how people feel like they've known me from somewhere.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - Impossible Vacation, by Spalding Gray; The Power of Now, by Eckhart Tolle; The Nameless Experience, by J. Krishnamurti; Jitterbug Perfume, Tom Robbins; Siddhartha and Knulp, both by Herman Hesse

Movies - Harold and Maude, The Jerk, I Heart Huckabees, What the Bleep?, Spinal Tap, Best in Show, Baraka, Being There (Peter Sellers)

TV Shows: Sports - Avid Boston sports fan...Sox, Celts, Pats and Bruins!!! Pretty much the only thing I watch on TV, other than films, but don't watch much TV.

Music - can't really list favorites...too many, but i'll list genres, and will say that i'm drawn to music with lots of soul and improvisation. Trad Jazz (Louis, Billie, Bechet, Charlie Christian, Nat King Cole Trio), Gypsy Jazz (Django), contemporary jazz (Miles, Wes, Grant Green, Pat Metheny), ragtime guitar (Blind Blake), New Orleans Brass Bands (Soul Rebels, Rebirth, Baby Boyz) and Piano (Prof. Longhair), finger-style guitar (Mississippi John Hurt, Michael Hedges) classic rock (Beatles, Neil Young, The Dead, Zeppelin, Van Halen), west african Kora (Toumani Diabate), bluegrass, trad americana, folk rock - singer/songwriter stuff (Nick Drake, Joni Mitchell, Bonnie Raitt, Martin Sexton, JT, Bill Morrissey), bossa nova (Joao Gilberto & Jobim), Hindusthani and Carnatic East Indian Classical music, the list goes on...

Food - Thai, Indian, Vietnamese, Ethiopian, Japanese (sushi), Mexican, New Orleanian (Cajun / Creole)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends, family, music, love, humor, the outdoors
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how thinking gets in the way!-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing or seeing live music, hanging with my dog, or having dinner with friends and making music...or all three.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i'm a sucker for some 70's ballads like, "bluer than blue" and "baby i'm a want you", and "please come to boston".
You should message me if
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You're up for the adventure!