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alphawhtpearl

37 / F / bisexual / Single

Harrisburg, Pennsylvania

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5' 1" (1.54m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am strong, outspoken, and hardworking.

My Self-Summary

I am a short curvy hispanic lady. I love the dark so maybe I am really a vampire on the inside. Who knows? I love the Erotic: Erotic Art , Erotic Literature, Erotic Music and Movies. I consider myself to be strong, independent and outgoing as well as soft and sensual at times. I am aggressive when I need to be and laid back when I want to be. I am a great listener but can get talkative if inspired to do so. I am an outgoing/introvert, optimistic, realistic/dreamer, dorky/social butterfly, sensitive smartass, naughty yet nice. I am a single mom who loves her children above anything else in this world. I would die for them. And just about anyone else I truly loved, especially my true friends.:) They know who they are. Love always, ME:)

What I’m doing with my life

Right now I work security in a retail store. I also am almost finished with my schooling and when done I can sit for the national boards for Shiatsu. Shiatsu is a type of body work that incorporates elements of massage, reiki and energy work. Within the next two years I will be running my own business and done with the retail gig.

I’m really good at

I'd like to say that I'm really good at being a mother and also I'm a good friend. I'm good at massage, so I've been told :)

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes and smile.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

My musical tastes very. I like a little bit of everything from classical and jazz to world music and metal. Mostly it has to make me feel. The movies I Like are: Blood Oranges, Poison Ivy, The Secretary, Run Lola Run, The Transporter, Sex, Lies and Video Tapes, Eyes Wide Shut, Way of the Gun, many foreign films, martial arts films, Sundance films and 80's films. Also a good vampire movie any day, romantic comedies, everything Robin Williams has done. The only thing I don't watch is horror unless I have someone with me. I'm such a chicken and it is a wonderful excuse to cuddle. I like TV but don't get to watch it often and when I do it is usually older stuff on Nick at Night. But I do like BattleStar Galactica the originals, Star Trek the originals, Dr. Who and varies shows on BBC and LOGO. I'm getting into some pretty cheesey reality shows also. And I absolutely love La Femme Nikita the series. This may sound corney but I love Happy Days, M.A.S.H. and The Waltons and Game shows. I love books and my favorites are:Exit to Eden, The Story of O, Proposition 31, The Harrad Experiment, anything by Anne Rice, Paradise Lost & Paradise Regained, books on different cultures and religions, a lot of the classics(which I need to read again), The Harry Potter Series, Chronicles of Narnia, Wrinkle in Time, Watership Down, Grounding of Group Six, and a variety of other childrens books and fluffy romantic novels(just for shits and giggles). I do enjoy good food. I mostly like asian cooking: especially Japanese, Thai and Vietnamese food. I love Italian food, deserts and wine. And most importantly good old fashioned Spanish food...I'm talking the kind the grandmother's from the islands make. Homestyle Cuban and Puerto Rican dishes are the yummiest.

The six things I could never do without

My children My sisters/friends My pets My books My spirituality My thirst for continuing my education

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Where I want to be in the next two years professionally and personally. Having my own business and moving out of the City are my main goals.

On a typical Friday night I am

I am either at home with my children or on the opposite Friday driving them out to Breezewood to meet the ex for his weekend with our daughter. Then driving home with my son and spending the rest of the evening with him. I generally go out with friends on Thursday nights.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

That I would really like a significant other in my life again. I was divorced in 2004. I dated one guy for about 4 or 5 months over a year and a half ago and another for about a month this past summer. I'm obviously not looking to rush anything but it is nice to have someone to share things with and spend time with.

You should message me if

You are definitely single. I won't even consider someone if they are separated or in the middle of a divorce. I've been there and don't wish to go down that road again. I don't wish to hide in a relationship anymore.