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alstergirl

39 / F / straight / Single

Manchester, United Kingdom

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English, German (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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I am Eccentric, Generous, and Sarcastic.

My Self-Summary

Cynical, bitter and twisted but deep down I know I'm wrong. Which means I have a streak of optimism running through me. Which makes up for my bitterness. "Witty but not always funny" is how someone once described me an awful group seminar thing, which I think sadly might be true. But most of the time I'm very loyal, honest, trusting and generous. A bit like a labrador I suppose.

What I’m doing with my life

I work in a theatre and like watching live stuff, especially music and comedy. Although I also have a weakness for really bad reality TV. It's not my fault. Have lived and worked in Manchester for about 10 years. I like it.

I’m really good at

Making sarcastic comments, pavlova and coming up with random song titles that suit the moment. And looking on the bright side, surprisingly. I'm Mrs. Brightside.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm instantly forgettable. They usually talk to me whilst looking over my shoulder for someone more interesting. Unless I've really hoiked my cleavage up.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Bimey. It's easier to say what I don't like really. Peas, liver, James Bond films and self help books. A bad night for me would be watching A View to a Kill with a side helping of liver and mushy peas whilst leafing through 'Women Who Love Too Much' Apart from that, anything goes.

The six things I could never do without

MP3 player, cold beer, red wine, books, the seaside, my friends.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

If I had to give up either cheese or chocolate for ever which would it be? Will I ever give up smoking? What on earth are the people next door doing? Why oh why oh why did I do 'THAT'?

On a typical Friday night I am

Having a quick drink after work, which will turn into many more much longer ones. Or at home, contemplating my shallow life, in between doing shallow activities like watching bad tv and drinking red wine. (see above)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I already feel like I've laid myself bare. That's all you're getting here.

You should message me if

You are genuine, honest, funny, laid back and open-minded. And will not judge my shallow addictions.