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34 Palmerston North, New Zealand Man


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  • Ages 27-39
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My details

Last online
Jun 6, 2014
Open relationship
5' 10" (1.78m)
Other and laughing about it
Has kid(s)
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Writing profiles and self-summaries tends to inspire in me some over-indulgent weirdness. I'm just going to try and skip that.

I am sardonic, dramatic, and necessarily busy.

I have two children, whom live with me and demand the majority of my time.

I have recently left work in Communications to pursue fatherhood and creative non-employment.

I indulge in board-games, weird hypotheses, making art and theatre.
What I’m doing with my life
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Discovering how to manage raising children and produce art, even while keeping the house clean.
I’m really good at
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Drawing; painting; and going without sleep.

Also making catastrophic mistakes and then then sitting back in the hope that no one will notice;
The first things people usually notice about me
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I take on too much.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fiction Authors - currently Mieville and Stephenson; my house is crammed full of books.

Movies - I enjoy a lot of non-mainstream movies and try to go along to the local film festival.

Music - I like music a lot but tend not to be very focused on it. If you like The Tigerlillies we will get along just fine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Semi-regular solitude; my kids; creative opportunities; moments of understanding; conflict without condemnation; brazen banter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about the world as I experience it - applying personal mythologies and metaphysical conjecture.

I also brood of the things that irk me about the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Honestly - recovering. What I should be doing - Painting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I only have a few things that I think of as private, and the fact that they are private means that I do not share them.
You should message me if
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you feel like it.