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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:50am
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Judaism but it’s not important
Has kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a divorced single dad. I have a 50/50 custody agreement in place with the ex. With that out of the way...

Like many others here, I find writing about oneself to be awkward at best, ridiculously egotistical at worst. To spare you all the pain and agony, I'll be brief.

I'm a working musician/artist.
Fortunately I've had a long running career to subsidize the above activities; it's in a field that many at first think is not related to the above, but I think they're very closely related. I will not bore you with details - I'd be more than happy to share if asked. (There are hints throughout though. If you make it to the end, you should have a pretty good idea of what I might do.)

I can be intense, sarcastic, and darkly humorous.
I can be laid-back, sincere, and just plain silly.

I am opinionated, but highly open minded; I'm always looking to learn something new and broaden my perspective. This includes a fondness for travel.

A close friend described me as an "extroverted introvert". I would say this is fairly accurate.

Creativity, Intelligence and Humor... That's what does it for me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Facial hair and sarcasm among other things...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Brain, eyes and facial hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Foreign, independent and classic films; Sci-fi and Fantasy.

Curb Your Enthusiasm, Breaking Bad.

Pynchon, Murakami; History, Philosophy; Sci-fi and Fantasy.

Miles Davis, Coltrane, Ornette Coleman, John Zorn
Frank Zappa
Tom Waits, Beastie Boys, The Mars Volta, Soundgarden, Zeppelin
James Brown, Maceo Parker, Curtis Mayfield
Debussy, Bartok, Stravinsky

Thai, Indian, Mexican, Japanese, Brunch
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My old Gretsch drumkit
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of music and the arts in society - both past and present.
My son
The weekend
Stuff that might be too math-y to get into any serious detail here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Gigging, rehearsing or recording.
Out with friends.
Walking about town.
Home with my son.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Let's just see how it all works out before we get into any of this "private" stuff...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Any of the above is appealing.
You enjoy intelligent and possibly intense conversation.
Creativity and artistic pursuits mean something to you.
Hiking, the beach or travelling and any combination of those are things you enjoy.
You enjoy the occasional board game or two.
Being a complete goofball is not a rare state of affairs...