and I will read through your answered questions. We can go from there.
I am looking for a lady who has time for a man in her life, who is open to an open relationship, or who might just be interested in being friends.
I am NOT into swinging with individuals or people I do not know. Getting to know one another is am interest to me. I am NOT into finding a new partner every other month or every 6-months, or even every year or two. If you have a history record of only short-term relationships, I am NOT interested. Ideally, I would like to meet a woman who has the same hopes and dreams in life that I do, but I also know that might not be realistic.
Basically, what do you and I like, what do you and I enjoy, what are our wants, hopes, dreams, expectations, desires, and what can we to make them happen, and to satisfy them, as much as possible?
If you insist on a monogamous, closed relationship, that is something we can talk about. Just know, that such a relationship is an all or nothing deal. Both of us need to get at least 90% of what we both want from a committed marriage. Both of us must have equal interest in each of our wants in life, and to ensure that each of us gets just that. I not into a woman using my feelings just to get what she wants. If you want me to live and die you, you must also live and die for me.
In addition, I am NOT going to break up with the person I am with, just you can run an experiment on a monogamous relationship. I got suckered into that once, and I am NOT doing that again. I am NOT going to let you WRECK something just so you can back out of a monogamous relationship once you are satisfied that your experiment is concluded. Other people's feelings are at STAKE !!
Like I said, we can talk about it.
Someone just asked:
"Wow....your profile really is serious.....
do you have fun side??"
Yes, I do have a fun side.
I am sorry about my profile words being serious or upfront about things. I apologize for that. I also need to organize it better. I tend to project a serious attitude around straingers. Perhaps there is a fear of being judged by others if they know something about me.
But for sure, I most certainly have a fun side to me.
I am also far more open and relaxed when I am around people I know.
I am currently in the process of better organizing my profile.
The BEST thing for you to do is to read my answered questions.
If you like I will message you my Facebook profile, resume , etc...
I am looking and busy. Ideally, it would be nice to intimately and personally and closely connect with someone ideal for and interested in raising a family. Ideally it would be nice to find a sole mate, but that is in an ideal world.
A few things that I feel are critical about a relationship are:
1. Financial Compatibility.
2. Sexual Compatibility.
3. Interpersonal Compatibility... Do we make good company.
4. Our Goals in life... Such as having a family, traveling, or staying put, etc.