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altfunlove

44 / M / Straight / Single

Dade City, Florida

His Details

Last Online
Apr 20
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
The BEST thing for you to do is to read my answered questions,
and I will read through your answered questions. We can go from there.
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I am looking for a lady who has time for a man in her life, who is open to an open relationship, or who might just be interested in being friends.

I am NOT into swinging with individuals or people I do not know. Getting to know one another is am interest to me. I am NOT into finding a new partner every other month or every 6-months, or even every year or two. If you have a history record of only short-term relationships, I am NOT interested. Ideally, I would like to meet a woman who has the same hopes and dreams in life that I do, but I also know that might not be realistic.

Basically, what do you and I like, what do you and I enjoy, what are our wants, hopes, dreams, expectations, desires, and what can we to make them happen, and to satisfy them, as much as possible?

If you insist on a monogamous, closed relationship, that is something we can talk about. Just know, that such a relationship is an all or nothing deal. Both of us need to get at least 90% of what we both want from a committed marriage. Both of us must have equal interest in each of our wants in life, and to ensure that each of us gets just that. I not into a woman using my feelings just to get what she wants. If you want me to live and die you, you must also live and die for me.
In addition, I am NOT going to break up with the person I am with, just you can run an experiment on a monogamous relationship. I got suckered into that once, and I am NOT doing that again. I am NOT going to let you WRECK something just so you can back out of a monogamous relationship once you are satisfied that your experiment is concluded. Other people's feelings are at STAKE !!
Like I said, we can talk about it.

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Someone just asked:
"Wow....your profile really is serious.....
do you have fun side??"
Yes, I do have a fun side.
I am sorry about my profile words being serious or upfront about things. I apologize for that. I also need to organize it better. I tend to project a serious attitude around straingers. Perhaps there is a fear of being judged by others if they know something about me.

But for sure, I most certainly have a fun side to me.
I am also far more open and relaxed when I am around people I know.
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I am currently in the process of better organizing my profile.

The BEST thing for you to do is to read my answered questions.

If you like I will message you my Facebook profile, resume , etc...

I am looking and busy. Ideally, it would be nice to intimately and personally and closely connect with someone ideal for and interested in raising a family. Ideally it would be nice to find a sole mate, but that is in an ideal world.

A few things that I feel are critical about a relationship are:
1. Financial Compatibility.
2. Sexual Compatibility.
3. Interpersonal Compatibility... Do we make good company.
4. Our Goals in life... Such as having a family, traveling, or staying put, etc.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently studying for a Cisco CCNA certification.

In addition to the CCNA studying, I am also reviewing old course material for getting back into school and I am using my down time to do some work or career related studying. I hope to started working on is getting a master degree or two and doing some teaching at a university or college or at least at a junior college. Eventually, I may even end up doing that full-time. Perhaps getting into teach will also allow me do some traveling.

I am also using my down time to get a good grip on maintaining my house, a one archer piece or property, and my vehicles. Anyone with real IT related work can relate to that. It can be difficult to find time to maintain your home and yard, and other properties when you find yourself putting in as much as 70 hours a week at times, or as much 36 hours over a two day weekend...

Fortunately, everything I own is paid for, free and clear, so that is something I do not need to think about.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex