Dealmakers; Communication,trust,lightness,intimacy of body and soul ,depth,laughter,forgiveness, delight, connection, joy, letting in the delicious other, spark, integrity and caring for this finite planet;Dealbreakers cruelty, dominance, defeat,consumerism.I had a 34 year long relationship. The last 8 years I have been single.Spend 10,000 hours on anything you will become an expert at it(a current theory). I decided to apply this to my own understanding of myself -and concomitantly to study eclectically about Men Women and relationships. I have applied myself diligently and joyfully to my self-appointed task of becoming better educated about relating.
I feel really ready to have a brilliant relationship. I do like to see a man's face especially his mouth
I love to laugh,with (not at) delighted recognition,could be birdsong or a mad intense idea -kind intelligent(sometimes hard to be both) I read I walk I swim I write poetry I carve out my own philosophy constantly. I love cats and birdsong and one dog.. Nature with all her many moods lifts me enchants me saves me from the pit sometimes.I love beauty in all its forms skyscapes,music that moves me,,some science, truth sometimes .I am often untidy but my herbs and spices are well organised I am more interested in being than doing though I am addicted to swimming in the atlantic ocean.