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35 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–36
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Today – 2:40am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Used up
When drinking
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Dropped out of university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Chinese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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sometimes bearded mountain dude, sometimes hipster dance partier, sometimes nerdy video game maker.

ok fine, always nerdy and never really all that hip.

i took a one-way flight from sf to bangkok in October 2010 and i've been traveling the world ever since, though i'm back in sf for a while at the moment.

ideally i'm looking for a more serious relationship, but in the meantime i'm also happy to just meet friends, with or without benefits. especially friends who want to dance party or do outdoorsy stuff.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
standing in awe of the breadth of human experience, trying to participate as much as i can.

to make money, i help craft deep and moving stories set in fantastical, virtual worlds for the most wonderful little company in the world. i can do this from pretty much anywhere, so i try to do it from pretty much everywhere.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
keeping a broad perspective on life. stopping to smell the roses. maintaining long friendships. taking it all in stride.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my six pack.

of beer. that i'm carrying in my hand, next to my nice soft, sexy belly. want a beer?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
god, over the years this particular box has gotten a little long and out of hand, so for those of you who want the tl;dr version:

carl sagan, tina fey, neutral milk hotel, spicy food, say anything.

for those who like long lists or are just kind of bored, BEHOLD! the long version:

there is too much lovely music in the world to list it in a little box. a non-comprehensive though fairly representative cross section would be neutral milk hotel, the rolling stones, lcd soundsystem, talking heads, animal collective, black sabbath, joanna newsom, and willie nelson. i also really like pretty icelandic stuff. and noisy japanese stuff. and almost everything that was on the radio when i was in high school.

as for books, i like magical realism ie Midnight's Children (Salman Rushei), classic sci-fi (Phillip K. Dick, William Gibson, etc), philosophical/historical fiction (Hesse, Thoreau, Dostoyevsky). Murakami who kind of does his own thing. i also really love history books, my favorite being Ideas by Peter Watson.

movies: i like blade runner and other gritty, classic sci-fi movies.i like awesome 90's coming of age movies like pump up the volume, reality bites, and most of all say anything. and historical epics like lawrence of arabia and doctor zhivago. i love the coen brothers, but so does everyone. i love early wes anderson but i think he kind of got stuck doing the same thing lately. i also like star wars, like, a LOT.

video games: i like, creative, artsy, thought-provoking video games. because of our entrenched societal gender roles you probably don't, and probably doubt that they exist. but they do! and they are a very powerful form of expression in my opinion.

food: i like to cook thai food, home made spaghetti sauce, and vegan chili. i tend to be drawn to strong flavors like chili, garlic, citrus, salt, and glutamate, but i am really blown away when i discover a mild tasting food that still begs to be noticed, like the tomato soup i once had a chez panisse. i love the perfect pairings of textures and flavors, like crispy sesame crackers with strong blue cheese and fresh blackberries. i love all manor of alcoholic drinks, but especially peaty scotch, oaky wine, and bitter beer.

i have a secret way of making bacon that will change your life.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the freedom to travel the world, an open mind, friends and family, dance parties, the mountains, the internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how a phenomenon as miraculous as consciousness could arise from the machinery of a cold and lifeless universe.

or, to borrow someone else's words, "how strange it is to be anything at all".
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
roaming the streets of gotham in a surrogate phallus, attempting to avenge the murder of my parents
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i have two butts.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... if you are curious about the bigger questions in life, passionate about something (anything) or maybe even lots of things, and pretty open minded.

... you want to meet up in some exotic part of the world and have adventures, or you are already in some exotic part of the world and want me to come meet you for an adventure.

... if you have something insightful or hilarious to say about all the jaw-dropping, awe-inspiring, earth-shattering, hyphen-necessitating realities that we are confronted with every day, yet must push aside for more mundane matters.

... you want to have an underwear dance party, and you have a rad underwear-dance-party-playlist ready to go.

... you will feed me tomatoes and radio wires.