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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 53–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:42am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Dropped out of Space camp
Has kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I asked some friends to offer some thoughts about my profile. They suggested I simply start over. So I asked them for some words they would use to describe me.

Here are some of the words they suggested: strong, romantic, kind, open-minded, considerate, intelligent, sophisticated, subtle, affectionate, athletic, adventurous, entertaining, noble (I really liked that one), playful, caring, well educated, loyal, successful, fun, funny, sweet, outgoing, introspective, artistic, thankful, dedicated, sincere, generous, selfless, sensitive, loving and passionate, unique; others told me exactly the opposite.

Oh yes, the one everyone agreed with, complex; then how is it that I think of myself as transparent and simple.

Odd, isn’t it.

So I consulted “Bring Me the Rhinocerous”, a wonderful book by a wonderful fellow who calls himself John Tarrant and found this bit of wisdom: “What we believe about ourselves does not stand up to examination, so there is always the problem of describing our own lives in a plausible way. The old teachers named this insubstantiality ‘emptiness’”. Emptiness, hmmm…sort of like that ‘know nothing mind’…hmmm, very zen….

These days, if I'm not traveling either cycling or for a photographic project (I tend to design these to require me to be in New York), I'm in the studio painting. A college friend and I have recently completed a screenplay about an intercity high school. When I look back on my path to this moment, all I can say is "Who wudda thunk?"

But were you to catch me on a day when I was willing to summarize who I think I am, I'd probably say, "Each day I remind myself to simplify, to seek and appreciate the essence, to notice when I wander and return to the center."

And then again, maybe it comes down to nothing more than this: I am financially independent and love my son dearly.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
living it more than ever...every day, doing what i love to do...finding wonder and satisfaction in every moment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
solving problems...creating something from nothing
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
if we meet, you'll be able to tell me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
my favorite is usually the book i am reading in that the moment or the movies i've just seen...right now, Bring Me the Rhinoceros, a wonderous book of Koans... each time I re-enter, I find much that resonates in new ways, shows me something about myself I was previously unaware of...The Deptford Trilogy...same effect...rereading brings new insights into myself....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends and loved ones....
good health....
a strong cup of coffee in the morning....
the love of a good woman....
time to think, time to play, time to appreciate everything....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my beliefs and assumptions...the way the world appears to me... recognizing the limits of my own consciousness and stretching the boundaries until they disappear...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
what's typical?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
don't be silly...that's why it's private....

if i must, on the multiple intelligence test, i was assessed as one possessed of interpersonal intelligence and advised not to make love too frequently with anyone whose math percentage is over 50%..i'm still wondering how to know when a woman's math percentage is more than 50% before we make love...this scene comes to mind: look, i know this is probably not the moment but i have to ask you something really meaningful...what's your math percentage?" oh? that's too high...i guess we have to get off the kitchen table."
You should message me if
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You are kind, loving, empathic, and emotionally available AND you think we'll have fun...if you don't know your math score...or, if you do....