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66 M Berkeley, CA

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of space camp
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I asked some friends to offer some thoughts about my profile. They suggested I simply start over. So I asked them for some words they would use to describe me.

Here are some of the words they suggested: strong, romantic, kind, open-minded, considerate, intelligent, sophisticated, subtle, affectionate, athletic, adventurous, entertaining, noble (I really liked that one), playful, caring, well educated, loyal, successful, fun, funny, sweet, outgoing, introspective, artistic, thankful, dedicated, sincere, generous, selfless, sensitive, loving and passionate, unique; others told me exactly the opposite.

Oh yes, the one everyone agreed with, complex; then how is it that I think of myself as transparent and simple.

Odd, isn’t it.

So I consulted “Bring Me the Rhinocerous”, a wonderful book by a wonderful fellow who calls himself John Tarrant and found this bit of wisdom: “What we believe about ourselves does not stand up to examination, so there is always the problem of describing our own lives in a plausible way. The old teachers named this insubstantiality ‘emptiness’”. Emptiness, hmmm…sort of like that ‘know nothing mind’…hmmm, very zen….

Maybe this will help…I am financially independent and love my son dearly.
What I’m doing with my life
living it more than ever...every day, doing what i love to do...finding wonder and satisfaction in every moment.
I’m really good at
solving problems...creating something from nothing
The first things people usually notice about me
if we meet, you'll be able to tell me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
my favorite is usually the book i am reading in that the moment or the movies i've just seen...right now, Bring Me the Rhinoceros, a wonderous book of Koans... each time I re-enter, I find much that resonates in new ways, shows me something about myself I was previously unaware of...The Deptford Trilogy...same effect...rereading brings new insights into myself....
The six things I could never do without
this will take some time to figure out...but there are of course the basics: food, air, water, a strong cup of coffee in the morning and cotton undershirts...oh, friends and loved ones...not too sure about walking on the beach at sunset that i've heard all the other men on the site can't do without...have to get back to you on this question
I spend a lot of time thinking about
questioning my beliefs and assumptions ...letting them go, for instance, that's some good purpose to think about the really big questions, you know, the exact ones we can't answer, so i've given up thinking about them...but they do pop up in my dreams every now and again
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
don't be silly...that's why it's private....

if i must, on the multiple intelligence test, i was assessed as one possessed of interpersonal intelligence and advised not to make love too frequently with anyone whose math percentage is over 50%..i'm still wondering how to know when a woman's math percentage is more than 50% before we make love...this scene comes to mind: look, i know this is probably not the moment but i have to ask you something really meaningful...what's your math percentage?" oh? that's too high...i guess we have to get off the kitchen table."
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 53–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You are kind, loving, empathic, and emotionally available AND you think we'll have fun...if you don't know your math score...or, if you do....