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29 Santa Monica, CA Woman


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  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5' 7" (1.70m)
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Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
My self-summary
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Hey there, I'm Amy :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I used to hate questions like this, ("What AM I doing with my life?!), but now, I like the challenge of trying to accurately convey my life in a few paragraphs to any human that may be reading my profile - i.e. You :-)

I recently experienced what I would like to call the most challenging situation I have had to navigate in life so far. With that challenge also came a significant learning and understanding of my Self, and the journey continues :-)

I feel very grateful to have a position that affords me an incredible amount of time, space, and energy to focus on other activities outside of work. I have been actively working on determining and solidifying what else motivates me in my life, and I can share that I have several passions and interests:

Travel / Adventure. I have taken a few solo trips now and the experiences I have had have been immeasurable. I spent three weeks in Portland back in April of this year (without knowing a soul), and it was by far one of the most memorable experiences I have had. The idea of living in various cities across the United States has now manifested into a reality and will be an adventure I am pursuing frequently come September of this year :-)

Healthy living. I am passionate about staying fit, consistently working out, and eating well (whole foods, plant based diet). I have my vices and I endearingly refer to myself as a fat kid at heart, but I am dedicated to taking care of my Self, including my body.

Growth. I continuously pursue personal growth and I am dedicated to loving myself and others each and everyday.

Connections. In the past, I have lived a life that did not always feel connected to others. I am actively working to change this, and in my attempts have revealed my inner people lover. I am working towards loving all humans unconditionally and understanding the unique and various ways in which humans connect. That being said, I am a total introvert, and need my me time to recharge and re-energize for more connections :-)

Living with Integrity. I strive to navigate life with integrity by engaging in open and honest communication, authenticity, loving actions, and viewing others with compassion.

Self-expression. This was a foreign concept to me my entire life, let's just say it was not well-developed or shaped in my formative years. I am actively working to find my own inner voice, she has been repressed for 28 years and she is dying to get out ;-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a strong communicator, emotionally intelligent, thoughtful, considerate, highly sensitive, and deeply compassionate. I have the capacity to be incredibly loving and supportive, and I am working on extending that capacity to any new connection I create; platonic or romantic.

I also have a small talent involving facial recognition. I am skilled at recognizing faces easily :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am genuinely curious how others would respond to this if I were to ask them. I am guessing that perhaps my short blond hair or fit frame might be answers. If you are interested in sharing your perspective on what you notice first, by all means, please share 😊
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Love
2. Play
3. Travel / Adventure
4. New experiences
5. Connections with others
6. Physical activity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
*How I can continue growing in my love for myself and for others
*How I can be a better human
*How to continue my own journey of growth into a strong sense of Self
*Where I should travel next
*How I can manifest more funds to travel
*How I can continue to push myself outside of my comfort zone
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Engaging in a new experience :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I used to be terrified of dogs - now I own two!

Seriously, my preference is to be honest, open, and authentic with others. I am an open book.
You should message me if
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I am attracted to men and women that inspire me, that live life with integrity, are emotionally intelligent, strong communicators, are comfortable with my poly lifestyle, have a strong sense of self, and quite frankly...... really get my 'weird' ;-) I am also open to connections of all kinds, platonic, romantic, and even somewhere in between.

If something (or some things) about my profile struck a chord or connected with you, I would love to know ☺️