I'm an outgoing person with a good outlook on life. I enjoy spending time with those I love and put my whole heart into a relationship. I hate fake people and pretenders. Unless of course you happen to be an actor of some sort, otherwise don't bother me. I am somewhat a sarcastic person and spend a lot of time looking for my half empty glass ; ). I enjoy those who can have a good conversation or debate without taking my opinions as personal attacks. I don't get offended easily and I realize that there are people out there with different viewpoints.

I am Honest, sincere, and intelligent

Currently I am putting my life back together literally from scratch as my last relationship failed in England. I'm not looking for someone to fund putting my life together but I'd like someone to be there to talk to or go out with and possibly have a future with. I don't enjoy being alone and I can always use new friends. Due to the fact that I'm employed but not working I plan on obtaining some training for a new job that will hopefully pay well and help get me back on track. After my life is somewhat back in order, I plan on pursuing my PHD in clinical Psychology, or perhaps being a life coach, there are always people who need someone to help guide them in the right direction. I do however enjoy the satisfaction that I get from helping people.

I'm fantastic at putting my foot in my mouth, never intentionally. I have a tendency to think it's funny and then get a lot of looks of wonder like a may be mentally deficient lol.I am a wonderful conversationalist and can talk about many varied subjects. I realize people have their own opinions and Im not judgemental about the views of others. I'm fantastic at screwing up my computer on a regular but on a brighter note, I can usually fix it as well, even if I have no clue what I did to fix it.

I am an excellent cook , I can cook nearly anything and I love cooking for other people.

I love making people laugh when they are down.

I'm a great friend and very good at listening, I love to help people with their problems and my friends say I give great advice having taken a lot of psychology courses. When my friends or family need someone, I'm always good at helping them through their dilemnas.

Things I am bad at: Approaching people that I don't know as I am quite shy until you get to know me. I can't sing (unless its in the shower, and even then it isn't anything that people would enjoy..My advice is not to enter my bathroom when Im soaking in the tub, it will definately save your eardrums! I also cannot perform a labotomy under pressure. Also I cannot dance, but I'd love to learn how.I cannot mow grass, it looks horribly shabby when I do. Lastly I cannot cook on a grill. I have tried several times and it generally turns out very rare or it bears a resemblence to charcoal. And PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not ever ask me to kill a spider, I'm likely to hyperventilate if confronted with an 8 legged beast. Please be willing to save me from the creepy crawlies, I will forever be in your debt!

Also I have a bad habit of leaving OKcupid on while I am away from my PC, so if you message me and I don't reply quickly, I will as soon as Im back at the computer, thanks for your patience!

Usually people notice my blue eyes that often change color with my mood, that Im a voluptuous and very attractive woman.

My friends tell me I'm quite easy-going. I will do anything for anyone if they need help, but I won't be taken advantage of.

I do not lie for any reason, if people cant handle the truth it is best not to ask me questions because you will get an honest answer.

Books: I read a lot of non-fiction, philosophy and psychology. How the human mind works and how people interact with other people truly amazes me.

Movies: Here is a condensed movie list.
Shawshank redemption, The green mile, Grandmas boy, Tommy Boy, Dodgeball, Thank you for not smoking, Lets go to prison, Full metal jacket, Idiocracy, Dumb and Dumber (sad huh?), Shaun of the dead, Dude wheres my car?, Harold and Kumar go to white castle, Harold and Kumar escape from guantanamo bay, Pineapple express, Beerfest, The Darwin Awards, The anarchists cookbook, Team America, Mr.Woodcock,Who framed roger rabbit (lol). The transporter 1&2, Faceoff, Pulp fiction, Lock, Stock, and two smoking barrels, Silence of the lambs, Hannibal, all of the Saw movies, The mothman prophecies, Pretty Woman ( I know its girly, and Id never force someone to watch it lol), A bronx tale, just to name a few, but the list goes on and on.

Television (because this should be a category). Family guy (Best series on earth!), American Dad, NCIS (sometimes), Becker, Criminal minds, Mad TV, Some of the History and Discovery channel, and various other programs that I do not religiously follow

Music: I like all types of music with the exception of country and rap, no offense to those of you who do and I'm always willing to compromise for someone special. Mostly I listen to rock and metal, but I enjoy classical, 80's classics, and many other genres depending on my mood.
My favorite bands are: The offspring, Greenday, Mindless Self Indulgance, Modest Mouse, Bush, Sound Garden. Nine inch Nails, H.I.M, Paramore, Tool, Seether, Alice in Chains, Fallout Boy, Keane, Blue October, Garbage, System of a Down, The beatles, The Rolling Stones, The Who, and many many more

Food: Indian, chinese, some japanese especially sushi (even though I despise seafood (yuck), mexican, italian, and good old American cuisine, pizza, burgers etc.

1) Humor , laughing is good
2) Family
3)Good friends
4)Money
5)A good book
6)You???
7)I know only six were asked for but in case of zombies taking over the world, I need my zombie bunker (joking of course, I hope anyway lol.

The six things I can do without (although more than six come to mind).
1) Dishonest/Fake people
2)Cheaters
3)Self absorbed men
4)Intolerant people (Everyone has opinions, respect them)
5)Ignorance/stupidity
6)Unsolicited criticism (Why can't people resist the urge to tell others what they think unless of course it's asked for?)

The color of air?

Seriously though, I spend a lot of time what my purpose is on this earth.
How I can help others.

Why there aren't any pickles on frozen whitecastles.

If I'll ever find someone who truly loves me for who I am and hopefully spend my life with them.

What my purpose is in this life.

I don't know if I ever stop thinking, which could be the reason I have so much trouble sleeping...hmmm

With my current lack of social life and the majority of my friends being in England I'm usually not doing much of anything. Mostly wishing I had someone to cuddle (who doesn't love a good cuddling partner?)up with and watch a good movie or go out and see the not so many good sights in this mayberryesque town that I live in.
Or else Im staring at the sky pondering the color of air?

I have green alien blood, was once abducted and now I have a microchip in the base of my spine in addition to the blood transfusion I was subjected to.

Seriously though, this isn't the place to be telling everyone my deep dark secrets, get to know me and I'm an open book.

You are looking for an honest sincere woman who has no psychotic tendencies, doesn't play head games, doesn't say "yes" when she means "no", hates drama and all the like. And you are looking for the possibility of a long-term relationship. And want to feel like you're the most special man on the planet.

I'm looking for a kind, funny/witty,supportive (emotionally not monetarily), honest, sincere man, not a guy who is still trying to relive his childhood, and a man that can understand that my life is somewhat chaotic at the moment, but I am rebuilding it and I will get there.

I can also use more friends.. Who can't? I love meeting interesting people to have philisophical discussions with and those who can take a joke as I can sometimes be a tad on the sarcastic side (when the time is right...usually, sometimes I wind up gagging on my feet, but I try hard never to offend anyone for any reason.

Or if you just want to message me and tell me how bad my profile is, I always welcome criticism but generally disregard it. And thanks in advance for your disregarded input. : )