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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 56–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:11pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Strictly other
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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Having tried various profiles, I've decided to just turn this into a blog I update from time to time.

Some particulars: I'm goal oriented and love my work, so I'm best suited to someone who's active - not retired - with a strong appreciation of music. I'm a political junkie, with feet firmly planted on the Left - would SO appreciate being with someone who shares those values. Finally - Please be in good shape! I keep myself in shape and I'm just not attracted to guys who have let themselves go. Oh - and no one under 50. Please.

I am and always have been a passionate person, and one of my great passions is the environment. I am a strong anti-fracker. Last week I took a trip to PA to actually see fracking sites. We went to Dimock, ground zero for fracking (all gas if fracked these days, BTW). Our bus was followed by security goons from the gas industry everywhere we went, and we were met by an operative who spewed industry talking points at us - dialogue was not possible. We felt harassed - but still determined!

I have lots of other passions of course – everything from bird watching and hiking, to salsa dancing (very unrehearsed at this point) music and film. Long walks on the beach and romantic evenings by the fire are always great. If we only had our own private beach; if it were only winter... :-)

My favorite movie of late is "The Heat," a silly but really fun buddy movie with Sandra Bullock and the intrepid Melissa McCarthy. What a hoot! All movies don't have to be silly, but sometimes it helps.

If you’ve read this far, perhaps you are disappointed that I’m not more flirtatious. This is after all, a dating site. I am hoping this would happen in person(!). There is no substitute for personal chemistry!

Now, tell me about you...
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a lifelong musician/composer for television, who made a transition to documentary filmmaking about 5 years ago. I'm enjoying good health and energy and moving forward on a daily basis.
I’m really good at
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I'm a great and supportive listener, I'm a great and loyal friend. I'm good at giving non-invasive feedback (when asked). Also good at interior design (though that's subjective), at music, writing and film. I'm also a (non-compulsive) neatnik - I like to know where things are. I have a great fashion sense, but I can let go of it and be super casual depending on the occasion.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Style and energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Official passions I would love to share: humor, biography, history and politics (Andy Borowitz combines two of my passions) - yes, I'm a Lefty - Buddhism, The Gospel at Colonus,The Whitney, The Rubin and MOMA, mushroom risotto, Edward Kienholz, Don Henley, Michael Conelly, Dirty Rotten Scoundrels, Masterpiece Theatre (especially Kurt Wallender), Life in Hell - and Episodes!!

Guilty passions: Country Music(!)

Food is less important to me generally. I'll eat anything but have to stay away from wheat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, a great book, a great movie, my home, a great camera - and one day, someone to share them with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the hell we're going to deal with global warming - and why no one else but Bill McKibben is spending any time thinking about it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Oh, this isn't going to go over well, but on a Friday night I am happiest watching a movie at home, or if we can find a quiet place on a Friday night, dinner with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Jeez, I already admitted I secretly like country music!
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