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amberdfw74

35 / F / straight / Single

Dallas, Texas

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Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Black, White
Height
6' 5" (1.95m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English

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I am a transsexual, intelligent, and outgoing!.

My Self-Summary

Hello there!! (SMILE)!! First of all, the one thing you must know about me is I was not born female. Although I have felt like a girl my entire life, my outward appearance did not show this. Early on in my life I was embarrassingly mistaken for a girl, but I eventually grew into my masculinity. Only since April 2009 have I let go and finally feel what it's like to match the outside to the inside. I do consider myself a transsexual, but I do not have implants (yet) or take hormones. Therefore, some consider me only a crossdresser because I haven't yet taken the steps. If you've read this far, then you might be even more interested to know that I am an amazon chick. I am a big, hefty, fun loving gurl who is probably taller than you. (Yes, I am 6'5). With school and my part time job, I only get to dress pretty a few days out of the week, but the frequency is increasing. Eventually I would like to be dressed full time.

What I’m doing with my life

To know where I am going in life, you might need to know where I've been. I grew up in small town, rural Oklahoma, but came to the city of Dallas as soon as I possibly could after college graduation. Once in Dallas I worked as a man in the tech field and eventually became a real estate agent. After that, I opened a real estate brokerage on Turtle Creek Blvd sponsoring agents from the office. Eventually after 6 years of self employment, the business fell apart and I decided to return to the job market. However, I wanted to acquire skills in the medical field, so currently I am picking up prerequisites to enter upper level nursing school this spring at UTA. I plan to become a nurse and with experience if nothing else comes up, I may become the traveling kind.

I’m really good at

I am really good at most things musical, technical, mathematical and scientific. I'm starting to really enjoy the girly-girl aspects of my transformation so I play with makeup alot, and put together outfits.

The first things people usually notice about me

People tend to first notice my height, and then I get comments on my eyes and my smile. Well really they say my lips, but I think they mean my smile, right?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Since I am in school, the only things I tend to read right now are textbooks, but I love movies and music as well. Movies, hmmm.. romantic comedies are absolutely at the top of my list. I like movies that make me cry and wish that someone felt about me the way they do in the movies. That's corny right? Oh well. I still say, after kissing a few frogs, one day my prince will come. Music -- my tastes vary. I love most Top 40, but I know a sign of me getting old is that the stuff on the radio is starting to sound a bit boring and redundant. But I still love the energy of pop and rap. Anything with a great beat and feel. Of course I make my own music too. You should ask me about that sometime. Food -- now we're talkin! I love Thai food mostly. Tom Tom Noodle House, Mango's on Lover's.. other than that, all food is good!

The six things I could never do without

My cell phone, the internet, my friends (wow is it bad that I thought of those two before my friends?), my family. Wait.. I can't think of anything else I can't do without. Honestly, I could do without my cell phone and internet but why would u? I cannot however give up my family or friends.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

A lot of time is spent thinking about the future. How my partial transformation is going to affect my loved ones, my prince charming. Where will nursing lead me? Where will I travel to, what will I see, and who will I meet? Will I stay in Dallas?

On a typical Friday night I am

On Friday nights, if I'm not studying, then I am probably hanging out with friends or watching a movie, or both. Since April, I have only been on one date. I would that to change. I would like to meet a nice gentleman to get to know and become friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

The most private? Hmmmmmm... Then it wouldn't be private. But ok. I am a very sexual person. If you are going to get to know me and date me, I would want to know if we are sexually compatible early on. I spent 9 years in a relationship with a man who we were not sexually compatible. After that tragedy, compatibility is high on my list. You might need a high sex drive to be with me. Is that private enough?

You should message me if

You should message me if you first and foremost are ok with the fact that some days I am a woman, and some days I am a man. You should message me if you are looking for someone who can hold a conversation. :) But FYI, I tend to date guys who are between the ages of 18 to 35ish? Maybe more... Even though I am a big gurl, I like my men younger than me, fit, trim and/or muscular. That's what turns me on and would also like to use you for inspiration to get more fit. I have dated older, and still will, but I'm giving you my preferences. HUGE turn ON's to me are tattoos and and body hair. You don't have to be a pretty boy. The average Joe Blow is most attractive to me.