Since being on this site for a while I feel the need to express some things which I find problematic/unattractive in men 'courting' me here:
I don't want to hear that your exes are 'psycho'. This resonates very closely to me with sexist ideologies like "bitches be crazy".
I don't appreciate being compared to other women on this site; being told I seem more interesting etc. Being compared favorably to other women is not a compliment in my world. Women are conditioned to compare and assess their worth against other women a lot. Other women are my friends and my equals and my ability to write with a little finesse doesn't make me any better or worse than any other woman.
Right, for now that's all. I hope these tips neither scare you off, though if they do you'd not be my type any way, or cause you to be sneaky and tailor your messages to me so as to present an untrue version of yourself.