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My self-summary
Hi, My name is RJ.

I am a former Chef who now works in the IT field at a University. I enjoy outdoor activities such as disc golf, hiking, archery, and target shooting, and geocaching.

I have been told that I am the life of the party. I enjoy getting out to meet new people. I have a great sense of humor and can be sarcastic at times.

I am an ordained minister for The Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster. As long as you can respect my beliefs then I can respect yours.

I do not smoke cigarettes, but I will smoke a pipe or a cigar everyone once in a while.
I have never been married and I do not have any children, but I would like to.
What I’m doing with my life
As a chef i worked in a variety of different place. Form high end dinning, corporate, and corrections. I am currently in the process of transitioning from my current IT job into an IT Project Manager.

I am also getting ready to run in my first 5k.
I’m really good at
I am a good cook since I used to be a chef.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Harry Potter, Ender's Game, Great and Secret Show, Dune, Fight Club

Movies: V for Vendetta, Full Metal Jacket, Star Wars(the good ones), Caddyshack, Napoleon Dynamite, Fight Club, The Princess Bride, Dune, 12 Monkeys, Jaws

TV: Orphan Black, Breaking Bad, Lost, Adventure Time, Regular Show, Bob's Burgers, Jessica Jones, Dark Matter

Music: Black Sabbath, Tool, Nirvana, Jewel, Hendrix, Evanescence, Blink 182, The Mamas & the Papas. I mostly listen to 90s alt and 60's Rock. I have been getting into 3rd wave ska now. I am really digging Streetlight Manifesto, Catch-22, The Mighty mighty Bosstones, Mustard Plug, and Real Big Fish.

Food: I'll eat just about anything except for tomato juice. Which is disgusting.
The six things I could never do without
1. My Friends
2. My Family
3. Having Fun
4. Laughing
5. Trips to Maine
6.Turning up the radio and singing along poorly.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
This is the hardest question to answer 'cause most of the time I'm just going with the flow and living life in the moment. No time to clutter up a nice day with too many thoughts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging with friends or chilling at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I had a gastric sleeve preformed in April of 2015 and it is working out well.
You should message me if
You are fun, outgoing and you like to have a good time.