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37 Middletown, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism and it’s important
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, My name is RJ.

I am a former Chef who now works in the IT field at a University. I enjoy outdoor activities such as disc golf, hiking, archery, and target shooting, and geocaching.

I have been told that I am the life of the party a time or time and I enjoy getting out to meet new people. I have a great sense of humor and can be sarcastic at times.

I am an ordained minister for The Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster. As long as you can respect my beliefs then I can respect yours.

I do not smoke cigarettes, but I will smoke a pipe or a cigar everyone once in a while.
I have never been married and I do not have any children, but I would like to.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
As a chef i worked in a variety of different place. Form high end dinning, corporate, and corrections. I am currently in the process of transitioning from my current IT job into an IT Project Manager.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a good cook since I used to be a chef.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Harry Potter, Ender's Game, Great and Secret Show, Dune, Fight Club

Movies: V for Vendetta, Full Metal Jacket, Star Wars(the good ones), Caddyshack, Napoleon Dynamite, Fight Club, The Princess Bride, Dune, 12 Monkeys, Jaws

TV: Orphan Black, Breaking Bad, Lost, Adventure Time, Regular Show, Bob's Burgers

Music: Black Sabbath, Tool, Nirvana, Jewel, Hendrix, Evanescence, Blink 182, Real Big Fish, The Mamas & the Papas. I mostly listen to 90s alt and 60's Rock.

Food: I'll eat just about anything except for tomato juice. Which is disgusting.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My Friends
2. My Family
3. Having Fun
4. Laughing
5. Trips to Maine
6.Turning up the radio and singing along poorly.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This is the hardest question to answer 'cause most of the time I'm just going with the flow and living life in the moment. No time to clutter up a nice day with too many thoughts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with friends or chilling at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I had a gastric sleeve preformed in April of 2015 and it is working out well.
You should message me if
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You are fun, outgoing and you like to have a good time.