if you are kind, laughingly self deprecating, appreciate art, are
curious about the possibility of a mutually respectful and
appreciative relationship, you feel an emptiness you cant put your
finger on and think a coffee or a walk with me may help you figure
some perspective or a new direction to take... also if you speak
humor & sarcasm (i'm fluent).
disclaimer; seems most women near where i am, hang out on this site
for picture gazing, idle chatter, trolling - nothing more, in any
case, i'm looking for cool new friends and maybe a intimate friend.
an ideal person i would like to get intimate with is a level
headed, strong, independent woman who could have kids with me, bond
emotionally yet leave me alone, in this place, i may not want to
rush something if we dont connect, i'm happy being friends, am not
looking to jump into bed or marriage & have no immediate
special plans for the future...
its hard enough in life anyways when, you dont want the attention
you get and dont get the attention you desire. SO, if your not upto
taking this further (no phone call / meeting / pictures or getting
to know more about each other) and want to waste away time chatting
on cupid (only), please give me the go-by. there are other idiots
here (desperate young thrusters) who shall - may i say, keep you
oh well ok, here we go, i dont see it going anywhere and dont
understand the point in engaging this anonymity after a while with
a nameless faceless person who i have no clue about, or if i'm
going to engage any mutual value from. its just very uncomfortable
for me, its like talking to a woman in a burkha, no eye contact, no
voice, no face; very dehumanising, cant explain it more. I prefer
not to meet anybody until i know who it is and what it is for,
which is not possible without exchanging a few phone calls, some
personal details and maybe pictures or some such - a mutual level
of comfort. its not like i expect too much, i know 99% its going to
be very hard finding someone i want to make a part of me, but thats
not my only intent in the first place, my intent here and now is
just to know if there is a possibility of mutual respect, to the
degree of making some transparent conversation, it happens
sometimes, doesnt mostly...
& if your ok with dating a guy who travels, truth be told this
site okc has yielded nothing so far...