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37 M Pune, India

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Working on space camp
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Bengali (Poorly), Hindi (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Urdu (Poorly)

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My self-summary
a nomad… i have travelled 5 out of 7 continents. when i'm not tripping over myself in a rainforest, swimming in the company of dolphins or piranha, shooting (camera) wildlife, scuba diving in oceans, rafting down rivers and skinny dipping in lakes or waterfalls, getting lost on the slopes of a lesser known mountain, hanging off cliffs or jumping off airplanes, i'm a student of anthropology and economics, an environmentalist, (think- plant trees not vegan) mediocre mountaineer and organic farmer. yes i know its quite boring work really, a space shuttle technician (IT guy) i'm certainly not. one more thing i am maybe is a wannabe minimalist... less is more

a bunch of folks ask me, why i do what i do,
there is something about the earth that touches my senses differently, its an emotion i cant really put my finger on, i feel differently when i work the land for a living over sitting at a desk in a box with a keyboard, its as close as i could get possibly with being at peace, farming though it doesnt pay much, provides me with that greater sense of equanimity which i consider worthy of my life.

a distant second could be playing with my dogs.
What I’m doing with my life
Was Climbing rainier & denali now, through may & june... Scuba diving, thinking about arctic and antartic deserts, aconcagua again, africa, (the serengeti made me a wildlife photographer), climbing in the caucasus & remote tibet. growing trees, working on renewable energy projects & living it up, really well; oh also, pottering about with studying my subjects, getting back to being a student after 20 years is not easy, but it is very interesting, reading a little, cycling a little to keep off the extra weight and observing the world sometimes from behind the lense of a camera, worrying about finding the right somebody to make babies with, (a woman who will be attractive yet simple and complete & leave me alone - yea rite quit dreaming) - you know, life sorta floats on...

perspective, A lot of the heavy lifting is deciding what you are about, getting your ideas in order and going from a general idea to a specific objective. For me, that’s always been kind of a mysterious process, partly intuitive, partly from what you see and experience. i think i have it partially figured out.
I’m really good at
being irritating,

i like to sip coffee with strangers, i have hope though, that i will learn a thing or two from complete strangers, i hope to encourage folks to slow down to share, to tell stories, to laugh, to inspire, not just when its politically correct but anyplace and anytime with anyone.
The first things people usually notice about me
my hair, its long enough now, the dimples when i smile,

my madness

why do you climb these death defying mountains she asked, to be as close to my natural instincts i replied, what do you mean, climbing upwards is a natural human instinct and to live between fear and survival is nature at its best and has been part of human nature thru millenia. To get as close to it, to embrace it passionately, to love it, to savor it, to survive it is the human condition i prefer...

messner says, mountains offer us a chance to experience what it was like a hundred thousand years ago when humans were wild animals and not dependent on society.

to climb a mountain, to dive deep into the sea and to see the other side, gives my life perspective.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
plenty, let me give you a taste....

movies by; guy ritchie, martin scorsese, christopher nolan of course woody allen and danny boyle -

authors; V S Naipaul, Robert Pirsig. i've handled profound things, but well its not necessarily part of my eclectic tastes -

music; floyd, straits, sting, jazz, pop -

food; indian tandoori, argentinian asado, african nyama choma, south east asian stir fry, russian shashliks and so on and on -

but dont go by the stereotypes, i prefer intelligence & character in my food and entertainment, no song and danceathons for me. i love spice in food.
The six things I could never do without
a) nature
b) reading
c) stimulating conversation
d) exercise - swimming, walking or weights
e) farming its more like loving...
f) my phone, computer, camera, ipod etc (yea the gadget club)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the next big mountain, geography, what to eat, experimenting with my life, chaos and the universe, funny/profound things folks say or do, cultural differences, travel plans & how to leave this world better than we found it, did i say what to eat...
On a typical Friday night I am
relaxing on a yacht, an island or a air plane far away from u
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
pssssst, i get turned on by tall women with long hair and fabulous bodies (yea rite - who doesnt)

too much mindless chatter over the internet and phones turns me off

i was married (we were together 10 years, now divorced)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
if you are kind, laughingly self deprecating, appreciate art, are curious about the possibility of a mutually respectful and appreciative relationship, you feel an emptiness you cant put your finger on and think a coffee or a walk with me may help you figure some perspective or a new direction to take... also if you speak humor & sarcasm (i'm fluent).

disclaimer; seems most women near where i am, hang out on this site for picture gazing nothing more, in any case, i'm looking for cool new friends and maybe a intimate friend. an ideal person i would like to get intimate with is a level headed, strong, independent woman who could have kids with me, bond emotionally yet leave me alone, in this place, i may not want to rush something if we dont connect, i'm happy being friends, am not looking to jump into marriage & have no immediate special plans for the future...