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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–39
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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Sapiophile, gentleman, sharp tongue. Thoughtful, generous, loyal, and honest.
What I’m doing with my life
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Finding the balance between laziness and ambition while working in the city as an IT Director of a nonprofit I don't care about. Trying to figure out how to convey who I am and what I'm about in an OKC profile. It's not possible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ocular patdowns. Trivial pursuits. Jeopardy. Observational humor. Making us laugh. Bad jokes. Grammar. Punctuality. Games. Cards. Tech stuff. Building stuff. Breaking stuff. Fixing stuff. Outdoor stuff. If you like to learn I got your fix.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Beard and confidence. People think I'm shy and standoffish. I'm really just figuring you out and gauging if you can handle me. I have a strong and confident personality and if I see it might be an issue then I won't engage. I don't need drama. After a few discussions I ultimately get "you are not at all what I thought." 99% of the time it's said with a surprised grin and a slight side eye.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything Tarantino, Denzel, Cruise, Ferris Buellers Day Off, Bronson, Fight Club, The Big Lebowski, Office Space, The 5th Element, Closer, The Devils Rejects, Donnie Brasco, Goodfellas, Casino, Wolf of Wall Street, A Bronx Tale, Mama, The Conjuring, The Cutting Edge, American Beauty, Snatch, Kingpin, Fargo, Clueless, Friday, Breaking Bad, Sopranos, The Wire, Six Feet Under, Futurama, South Park, Bobs Burgers, The Life and Times of Tim, Seinfeld, Always Sunny, Reno 911, Banshee, Firefly, Broad City. House Hunters International. Jay-Z, Fabolous, anything Brooklyn, Hip Hop, Rap, R&B, anything Trent Reznor does, Rock, RHCP, Classic Rock, Slightly Stoopid, Reggae. Yankees. Rangers. Knicks.

I like to cook and eat healthy but also love going out. Portuguese is my favorite and Thai a close second. I'd like to take town Adam Platts 101.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
How about three things I can't:
Water (Drinking and playing)
Peanut Butter
And three things I can:
The media
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the fuck I want out of life. All the shit I should be doing but I'm not. How I could write ten more of these profiles and still not even come close to feeling it's complete.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In. Out. About. Relaxing. Friends. Family. Lake. Beach. Bars. Restaurants. Bowling. Arcade. Shows. Everywhere. Nowhere.
You should message me if
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You like the humor of George Carlin, Larry David, and Louis CK. You can discuss Carlin topics or the banality of David's and still walk a mile like Louie. You like to learn. You're objective. Confident. Smart. Witty. You're self-aware. You pay attention to most, if not all, of the details.

You really appreciate a solid sense of humor that has depth. I can't tell you how many times I go out with someone and they say "I've never met anyone like you" as vodka tonic comes out of their nose.

Sarcasm, unless really well played, isn't wit. If I wanted to get poorly sassed I'd go hangout with my nephew. If sarcasm is one of your "things you cannot live without" please don't message me. Or if you said something like "sarcasm is my second language" or even better "sarcasm I put that shit on everything" you should probably date a teenager. You're probably not very good at it either. Properly played sarcasm should make you think twice. Don't get me wrong, it's not that I'm not sarcastic, it's just that there's other ways to be witty. If sarcasm is your default or go-to... No.

Don't bother if you're the type to complain about you're/your and there/their/they're but then have a pic that with a caption "My Dad and I" - You're the worst.

GGG a must.

You see the humor in all of this.

The idea of going to a Rangers or Yankees game sounds awesome.

The thought of buying an RV and taking off sounds even more awesome.