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52 Lexington, MA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Other
My self-summary
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Tired of the weirdness and pretend of "dating". Finally realize that she is not a "dater", and, like me, would rather be alone than with the wrong person. Would like to make a difference in a good woman's life.

I'm kind of a country boy, apparently marooned on planet Earth from my native planet. Country sensibilities, come from simple farmers and teachers in Italy. I think of cities as places to visit for attractions, but not places to live, because they are detached from Nature, and inhospitable for gentler soul.

Admirer of Jorge Bergoglio and Tenzin Gyatso.

I have a financially comfortable, busy, full life, missing only romantic companion. Looking to share with the right woman, kindred in spirit - educated, or becoming so; compassionate; affectionate, playful, thin to avg body-type, and "wickid smaht". :-)

6', 185 lbs., 53, full wavy gray hair with a few black strands surviving; close-cut facial hair 2nd generation Italian/Austrian ethnicity, athletic body-type, sprinter/strength training; never smoked or drugs; don't drink; divorced 3yrs, no children; intellectual, An abd PhD in grad-study; former student for monastic life; reserved personality, idealist, practical, playful; teacher; small-scale residential real estate investor; believer in Eastern philosophies; vegetarian; and trying to become a writer of social commentary.

If you are interested, like to know more, please let me know. If we make it past the email/phone-talk stage, I'll treat for dinner at a nice restaurant, to see if we might have the beginnings of some romantic chemistry to rescue us both from the urban singles jungle.

If we do, we'll follow the pathways of life that beckon us - nice restaurants, weekend trips, hiking and exploring natural places, museums, music, movies, escaping the city to my Cape house in a village on Nantucket Sound, sailing a little dingy, and of course, flying kites. :-)
What I’m doing with my life
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Real estate investing; volunteer teacher of English and American culture to immigrants; observing and writing.
I’m really good at
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listening, problem-solving, metaphor, inquiry, extrapolating,
The first things people usually notice about me
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Quiet calmness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Films with sub-titles, science, history, economics, biography, psychology, philosophy, art.

Dickens, James, Austen, Wharton, Conrad, Millay, Aurelius, Emerson, Chuang tze, Wordsworth, etc.

PBS, NPR, BBC, This American Life, Masterpiece, Midwife, Wolf, Frontline, Nova, Nature, MI-5, Modern Family, 30 Rock; Funniest Videos, Curb Enthuisiasm, House of Cards (BBC), Moth, TED, Radio Lab, etc.

Brazilian, Broadway musicals, American song-book, classical, traditional Asian, smooth jazz, ethnic, etc.

Italian, Indian, Middle Eastern
The six things I could never do without
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1. Knowing good people

2. Physical fitness and health

3. Insights from Eastern philosophies.

4. Helping others.

5. Night sky at beach near my Cape house.

6. (Pending)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, relationships, evolution, human condition, real estate.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
in Italian food night with a dear aunt and cousin.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm small-talk challenged.
You should message me if
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there's some resonance from my profile.