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52 Lexington, MA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Other
My self-summary
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Former student for monastic religious order, quiet, reserved man of country sensibilities, not in great demand in this world of glamor-conscious, urban-women in war-paint, perched on high heels, conducting "dating" interviews with men, and "chemistry" experiments, to, as Janice Ian sang, "marry into what they need, for "guarantee of company, and haven for the elderly.".

Finding that elusive, complementing female beating heart in bars and the madding crowds is not an option. (Not that she would be there, anyway. :-) Thus, since my aunts haven't found her for me, it's OKC.

Hoping to engage an intelligent, thoughtful, humane, spiritual and sensual woman, with similar limited options for a romantic soul mate, also seeking out of this urban jungle of singles, and to bring some life-enhancement to such a woman.

Perhaps even a former nun. ;-)

Looking to make a difference in a good woman's life, who, maybe, has experienced the bad luck referred to in William Boyd's observation that "It's all luck in the end, that's all life is. All the good luck, and all the bad luck, that's the only story".

Maybe a woman with dependent children, or working on educational credentials,, or in transition to another life-path, who would welcome a secure man's support and protection as a romantic life-companion.

Personality traits - intellectual, philosophical, idealist, pragmatic, inquirer, skeptical, stoic, teacher, social activist, naturalist, humanist, serious, playful, Humane Society and PETA supporter.
What I’m doing with my life
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Real estate investing; volunteer teacher of English and American culture to immigrants; observing and writing.
I’m really good at
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listening, problem-solving, metaphor, inquiry, extrapolating, eating, and not bragging about things I'm good-at.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Quiet calmness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Films with sub-titles, science, history, economics, biography, psychology, philosophy.

Fiddler, Another Earth, Any Human Heart, Harry Met Sally, Sex/City, Gump, Private Ryan, Casablanca, etc.

Man's Search for Meaning, Crisis of Our Age, Wave Principle of Social Behavior, etc.

Dickens, Austen, Wharton, Conrad, Millay, Aurelius, Emerson, Chuang tze, Wordsworth, etc.

NPR, BBC, This American Life, Masterpiece, Midwife, Wolf, Frontline, Nova, Nature, MI-5, Modern Family, 30 Rock; Funniest Videos, Curb Enthuisiasm, House of Cards (BBC), etc.

Brazilian, Broadway musicals, American song-book, classical, traditional Asian, smooth jazz, ethnic, etc.

Italian, Indian, Middle Eastern
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Knowing good people

2. Physical fitness and health

3. Insights from Eastern philosophies.

4. Helping others.

5. Night sky at beach near my Cape house.

6. (Pending)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, relationships, extrapolations, evolution, human condition, movie themes, meaning, Robota Sapiens, real estate.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having Italian food with a dear aunt and cousin.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm small-talk challenged.
You should message me if
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there's some stirring with my profile.