Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am 22 years old, in the midst of a divorce. I am an active duty
sailor who loves being in the military, and am making it a career.
I go to school full-time online, and I do a lot of volunteer work
on the side. I also have a fledgling candle company that I am
working on in my spare time.
Beyond that, I am also a submissive. I am heavily involved in my
local BDSM community and have found my stride there. I greatly
enjoy meeting people in the lifestyle, in a safe sane consensual
environment. BDSM to me is not just a bedroom activity, it is a
part of my daily life, and any partner I may become involved with,
needs to understand and respond to that. I seek both sexual and
service domination, and am happiest at my Sir's feet. This does not
mean however, that I have any interest in abusive quasi-doms, and
anyone acting in such a manner will be ridiculed and then
I am an individual who seeks stimulating conversation, and
enjoyable company. I enjoy debating and discussing many topics, and
have a wide array of knowledge, and am constantly learning more.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a sailor first and foremost. I am an active duty sailor, and I
love my career. I am also a student, taking online classes for the
time being. I am studying in Forensic Psychology, with a special
interest in psychological ultra-violent criminals. I put a high
value on my education, and have a true passion for what I study.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Really good at? I can't say I am "really good" at much...but I take
true enjoyment in making homemade candles that are safe for skin
contact and wax play.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My personality, plain and simple. I am excitable, exhuberant, and
always quick to get involved in something. Jump in the ocean in
january for charity? Been there, done that. Dress up as a Sith Lord
for a movie I don't really want to stay up till midnight to see?
I don't hold back. I am very open about myself, including myself in
the BDSM community, and I take great pride in that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) BDSM as a part of my life.
2) My IPOD (which is a schizophrenic beast on the best of
3) Intellectually stimulating conversations
4) Something I could write on be it a laptop or a plain old pencil
5) My best friend.
6) some kind of career or job.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I do many things in my free time, it all depends on my mood.
Sometimes I need the loud chaotic thrum of a band as I jump around
like a loon in combat boots and a mesh top. Other times, I would
rather sit at hope with a good book and a cup of hot chocolate or
tea. Occasionally I want to go dance, and sometimes I'd rather just
sit with friends and play cards.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I sometimes feel so overly stressed by everything I do that I just
shut my phone off for a weekend, and hide. I go invisible on
facebook and fetlife, and all my other websites and just hide out.
You should message me if
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you seek someone to share intelligent conversations, spontaneity,
and kinky times with. You should message me if you'd like to learn
about BDSM, or candles....or if you just want someone to connect
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