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33 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18-30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 31
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Buddhism but it’s not important
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I can be pretty nice, patient, caring, and understanding. I like to listen.

I like to play the piano, learning to play the cello, and casual games. I also like to just explore different neighborhoods, eat, and people-watch.

I also love to cook. Wanna come over for a dinner party?

I live in Oakland and really like the city.
What I’m doing with my life
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I design toys and video games for kids. I also run a consulting firm back on the East Coast. I keep myself busy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and caring. That's probably my best qualities. And i am also good at staying calm...I am optimistic, and think everything through logically and rationally.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My calmness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love all kinds of music. I love sci fi movies, but also enjoys an occasional teen flick or a blockbuster. I enjoy cooking and eating foods from all different regions and cultures, and I look forward to exploring more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A computer; a stove; coffee (trying to quit); my pillow; a pen; someone to love and care for.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make people smile.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
making a meal
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I hate bugs...
You should message me if
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You want someone to talk to, go on an adventure, or try out a new restaurant, etc. Coffee's nice too. I would also love to find someone to share cultural activities together like a concert, play, etc.