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amorist87

28 Portland, OR Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Mar 14
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Curvy
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Status
Seeing Someone
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Looking for positive, open-minded individuals who have respect for themselves (and for others) for genuine friendship and adventure.

Fair warning, I am only on okcupid once in a blue moon.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Nerding out big time (professionally, and in my "free time").

If you want to get together and drink too much caffeine while talking about urban planning, restorative justice, food systems, stories as data, CPTED, placemaking vs. gentrification, urban form, the economics of happiness -- we will be best friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Kissing, taking my vitamins regularly, shaking my money maker, and embarrassing you in public.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
HAIR
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Some fiction: Middlesex, White Noise, Autobiography of Red, Written on the Body, Beyond the Pale, Xenogenisis.
Some non-fiction: The End of Gay: and the death of heterosexuality, Sex at Dawn, Zami: A New Spelling Of My Name, A Continent for Taking

I am currently reading Family Properties: How the struggle over race and real estate transformed Chicago and urban America. It may be the best book I have ever read.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Avocados
Cats
Laughter
Kissing
Women
Chocolate
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking on those ill-structured concepts which define our "human" existence: sex, gender, race, nationality, class, creed; and about community, our cultures and our counter-cultures; on churches, governments, the rule of law and methods of establishing order. I think about how people categorize, how they define, how they institute their zany ideas, and how they very seldom seem to accomplish much more than self-deception. I think about how people are just scared, creative, confused, intelligent, emotional, self-absorbed, beautiful animals.

O. And shoes. I spend a considerable amount of time thinking about shoes.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
a. You're smart.
b. You are a Feminist.
c. You can hold your ground.
d. You're silly/odd/goofy/obscene/witty/gnarly and sarcastic.
e. You are Body Positive.
f. You're a nerd and you'll hunker down, smoke a bowl, and watch STNG or DS9 or BSG or Firefly with me.

Really, Don't bother if:
a. You identify as socially or politically conservative.
b. You're a Straight identified couple looking for a play toy for the night.
c. You're pessimistic/not a people person/not an animal lover or some other form of a socially regressed downer.