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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Nov 19
Hispanic / Latin, Other
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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what's up?This looks like a potentially great space for meeting great people with similar interests and potential cupids :)
What I’m doing with my life
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I am working, as most people are, to make a living, at the moment and working towards creating a work life based on passion :). I am Doing a few other things such as; a part-time volunteer teacher at a non-profit, reading a variety of books having to do with economics, politics, and spirituality ...and as I approach my big 40, I am recalibrating what to do with the next 5-10 years of my life - you know, setting some goals :) ...

I enjoy going to the gym, staying fit with yoga occasionally, and weight lifting, while I enjoy riding my fixie bike every day or as much as I can ...

It's Spring, so I am definitely getting out of the Winter hibernating stage, you know how that is ... I am also looking forward to the Summer as the sunshine brings a lot of outdoor activities and a sense of freedom, yeah, from those heavy winter jackets, coats and sweaters ...

I'm also creating an open space in my heart, mind and body to meet great guys with a moderate amount of similar interests who can challenge me can potentially grow together in this thing call life ...isn't that what people ultimately want? A partner in life to love and enjoy it with? Yes, that's what I am looking for on here ...

I used to have somewhat of a spiritual practice ( Eastern Tradition) and practiced for many years at the Kadampa Buddhist Center in Chelsea...I am of the opinion that a spiritual practice is essential for creating a life with meaning and a foundation for living with purpose ...I do have to say I am somewhat of an agnostic atheist as far as belief in religion, hence why I gravitate more towards the Eastern Traditions ...

I also enjoy going to various workshops, lectures dealing with social justice causes, spirituality, environmentalism and local, national and global political issues, such as creating a better sustainable world for us and for our children even if we don't have children but just for the children who will come after us ...our world is in a terrible state at the present time due to the current paradigm we are living in,well at least the mainstream culture is living in ie rampant consumerism and such ...
I’m really good at
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I'm good a various things ... you'll have to get to know me to find out more details - there is more to an individual than first meets the eye and everyone is experiencing everyone differently day by day, especially if you are that kind of person that is not in the proverbial box ...
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile and they usually say you don't sound like you sound on the phone meaning I kinda sort of sound like a white boy but I am totally mixed race lol - so many categories we get placed into :(
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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well, the color purple and dirty dancing and my big fat greek wedding, many sci-fi movies, space-based movies especially ones with a love theme; although they are very Hollywood fiction based; can't a boy dream a little :). These are more or less, some of my all time three favorite movies. BUT, make no mistake, I like a variety of movies and particularly documentaries as they teach me so much about other people's experiences and the world we live in albeit reality is not so fixed so we are not really having the same reality...

I tend to read a lot of books on spiritual development, social and economic justice and l like to listen to many courses from the Teaching Company along with watching many documentaries on Netflix, Youtube and That is essentially how I spend my solitude time... these activities reinforce my vision for the kind of world I would like to live in, however, idealistic, that might sound, but only I can create "my world" as everyone else ... see I told you I was socially Conscientious...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
sex, my bike, dharma, my family, working, gym, food, water, air and friends ...and oh, coffee in the mornings :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to make a the world a better place free of war and greed and stupidity ...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at home lying on the couch recovering from the work week :) as opposed to going out drinking and getting drunk which is completely outside where I am in my life right now - I did that in my 20s :), you know what I am mean ... and I loved every bit of those 20s hehehe -why, didn't you :) ... ahh, the good ole days of youth is wasted on the young...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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nothing to the public, that's why it's private :)
You should message me if
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message to say hi, establish a connection whether romantic or friends is all good :)