Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I believe honesty is more important than fidelity, and that talking
about ideas is more interesting than talking about people. I travel
around a lot and am always looking for people who share these
beliefs to hang out with.
My favorite way of getting to know someone is through mutual effort
on projects which appeal to both of us, so it's difficult to
explain who I am through any kind of passive medium like a
I am a professional full-time artist, and spend most of the year
traveling to art shows internationally. I am also a sex educator,
teaching classes on alternative relationship models, sex-positivity
and BDSM. I therefore spend a lot of time talking about, looking
at, and engaging in art-creation and sex.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a freelance photographer, spending a significant portion of my
life selling my artwork at street fairs and conventions around the
I moved to Chicago in 2004, and it's strange to think how long ago
that was. I left a large, extremely intimate social group in
Pittsburgh, and have yet to make any strong friendships. I
sometimes think that I've set my standards too high. I want the
close camaraderie without the years of interaction that lead to
such closeness. Or maybe my problem is that I'm too busy dating to
make any gorram friends.
I'm more interested in finding people to go out and do things with
than I am interested in finding a romantic partner right now. That
said, I am looking for a romantic, long time partner, who knows how
to be supportive of non-traditional employment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
, showing I
care without acting like i care, ranting about politics
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
, Jin Roh
BOOKS: House on Pooh Corner, The Ramayana, Ender's Game...
AUTHORS: Tom Robbins, Steve Anchell, Gregory McGuire...
MUSIC: Everything But The Girl
Supreme Beings of
, Utah Saints
, Transglobal Underground
FOOD: Indian, Cajun, Mexican, French, American, (all)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
first edition House At Pooh Corner
friends, something new to read, my music collection, a sense of
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
double checking what city I am in, wondering how to better myself
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Selling art at a festival, drinking at a festival, dancing at a
festival, teach sex ed classes, learning stuff I could teach next
Friday, or editing photographs (usually while drinking rum)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
After every visit to my parents, I spend a disturbing amount of
time examining my ears.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're socially active, photogenic
, or are comfortable talking to
someone with an alternative morality that is not merely hedonistic.
You should NOT message me if you spend more time watching TV or
smoking dope than anything else.
Who are you looking for?
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