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My self-summary
I am a polyamorous-transfeminine-atheist-vegan archaeologist/ writer/ vegetarian chef. My deeply held vegan beliefs mean I may never be able to fully transition.

I believe that all action should stem from the heart, that we are defined by the stories we embrace, and that peanut butter cups and pickles go together regardless of what anyone says.

I am also terribly shy. I respond well to being pursued, but I am rarely the pursuer. My poor wits cannot handle it.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently working as a substitute teacher and part time field archaeologist while I get my writing career off the ground. As for the writing, I am currently working on several manuscripts.

As a writer and cinephile I have been feeling the urge to share my voice on the films I love. As a result I am currently designing my own film review website to be launched later this year.
I’m really good at
Cooking, singing, Oh! And being utterly ridiculous.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm......let's go with eccentric.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: A Brief History of Time, Arcadia, Arsenic and Old Lace, The Catcher in the Rye, The Complete Sherlock Holmes, Dune, Einstein's Dreams, Ender's Game, Farenheight 451, The Great Gatsby, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, I, Robot, The Importance of Being Earnest, Invisible Man, The Invisible Man, The Light of Other Days, The Lion The Witch and The Wardrobe, The Lives of Christopher Chant, The Lord of the Rings, Midnights Children, Much Ado About Nothing, My Name is Ahser Lev, Nueromancer, Rollback, The Short Happy Life of the Brown Oxford, A Song of Ice and Fire, The Things They Carried, The Time Machine, The Ugly American, A Wrinkle in Time, The Time Traveler's Wife

Music: Frank Sinatra, Queen, The Moody Blues, The Beatles, Billy Joel, David Bowie, Barenaked Ladies, Jonathon Coulton

Films: 12 Angry Men (1957), Abre los Ojos, A Beautiful Mind, All the President's Men, Amadeus, Arsenic and Old Lace, Awakenings, Back to The Future, Before Sunrise, Casablanca, Clerks, Clue, Dances with Wolves, Dead Poets Society, Defending Your Life, Duck Soup, E.T. the Extra-Terrestrial, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Fight Club, The Freshman, Ghostbusters, Groundhog Day, Highlander, The Hunt for Red October, The Importance of Being Earnest, Interstellar, It's a Wonderful Life, L.A. Confidential, The Lord of the Rings, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, Mr. Smith Goes to Washington, Much Ado About Nothing, The Muppet Movie, North by Northwest, Pi, The Producers, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Schindler's List, Searching for Bobby Fischer, The Shawshank Redemption, Sneakers, Star Wars: A New Hope, The Sting, The Third Man, Three Strangers, The Usual Suspects, WarGames, When Harry Met Sally, Who Framed Roger Rabbit

Television: Babylon 5, Battlestar Galactica (2004), Being Erica, Boston Legal, Burn Notice, Dead Like Me, Doctor Who, Coupling (UK), Firefly, Frasier, Fringe, Friends, Law and Order: Criminal Intent, Life on Mars (UK), Numbers, Psych, Sherlock, Star Trek: The Next Generation, The O.C., The Office, The Outer Limits(1995), The West Wing, The Booth at the End, Wonderfalls
The six things I could never do without
Love, Sex, Friends, Books, Film, Me Time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The cultivation of happiness.
On a typical Friday night I am
doing something very low key. Working with kids all week means needing to recharge a little at the end of it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I made up a dance for the Psych theme song. And danced to it. Every episode.
You should message me if
First, please do! I was recently asked what my move was when I am interested in someone. My answer was:

"Honestly? When I like someone my move is to wait silently for years until they make the first move."

That being said you should message me if:

You are a cis/trans woman or couple interested in a trans woman.

Finally, I love cats, but I'm exceedingly allergic to them. Having a cat doesn't preclude us being friends, but it would put a serious hamper on dating or sex.

About Poly:
"Polyamory" is the practice of having multiple loving, but non-monogamous, relationships with the awareness of all involved. If you are curious to know more about ployamory you can check out Young Polyamory, a Chicago based meetup group for young, polyamorous and polycurious people. You can visit the YP meetup group, and learn about upcoming events, by using the following link: