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amusable

41 / F / straight / Single

San Diego, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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I am curious, attentive, and honest.

My Self-Summary

I am a fairly simple person. I think life is short, and there is not enough time for lots of drama, holding grudges, trying to measure up to societal expectations, constant worrying, or high stress.

I would like to meet someone with whom I can share mutual respect first and foremost. Someone who is open-minded, who wants to explore all aspects of life, and interact with all types of people. I want to have fun and laugh. I never want my life to become routine. I do not place high value on money, competition, or trying to get ahead. Life is not a game, and I am not here to impress.

I am not looking for a person who can write the most creative, unusual profile - or someone who is trying to prove their intelligence, political agenda, creative writing skills, or otherwise. I am just looking for someone who is real.

What I’m doing with my life

Changing careers and trying to enjoy and simplify my life as much as possible

I’m really good at

Listening, observing, analyzing, making plans, playing piano

The first things people usually notice about me

People think I'm younger than I am

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

John Irving, Margaret Atwood, Ayn Rand, John Updike... Radiohead, Muse, Rage Against the Machine, Regina Spektor, Sigur Ros, Spoon, Elliott Smith, Billie Holiday, John Coltrane, could go on and on...all food - seafood (favorite), thai, vietnamese, mexican....haven't seen a lot of movies, but like documentaries, sundance and independent

The six things I could never do without

music, beverages, the ocean, hiking, friends, music

I spend a lot of time thinking about

how I think too much

On a typical Friday night I am

varies depending on my mood - I'm good to go out or stay home, but mostly hanging with friends

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

like to keep things private until I know you

You should message me if

you want to