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xerotherma

28 San Francisco, CA Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:32pm
Orientation
Demisexual, Questioning
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
stigmatophile, pluviophile, ailurophile, turophile. i’m in the midst of a transitional period…but aren’t we all?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i make house music.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
everyone's first question: what's your ethnicity? (hint: this is also one of my least favorite questions)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: the bell jar, the perks of being a wallflower, water for elephants, and the poisonwood bible are the going favorites. i'm currently reading kingdom of strangers. any suggestions? i'm trying to build a large book collection.

movies...i love scary movies. i even like bad scary movies. i have a thing for "found footage" horror. why? i don't know. my favorite scary one lately is insidious. i also liked the ring and the descent. i also like end of the world movies. and pulp fiction. duh.

my musical tastes vary widely. i like everything from house/electro/breaks/other edm (not dubstep) to punk/goth/indie rock to jazz to classical. not a fan of rap/trap though. or polka.

and food...i really like sushi, thai food, savory crepes, dollar tacos, really good seafood pasta, asian noodle soups of all kinds, veggie pizza, in n out, chow mein, dim sum, the perfect alfredo sauce, fancy salads, coffee flavored stuff, a good steak...i'm just a fan of food in general. i love food (and cooking). i'm pretty adventurous when it comes to trying new things, as long as it's not wriggling on my plate. i'm not a big fan of sweets though. and since it's in the culinary category, i'll include it here: i LOVE wine. i love wine tasting, wine pairings, cooking with wine, etc. it's great.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
cats, the internet, lip balm, good wine, blankets, and good food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
melodies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
i like going out. bars, happy hour spots, clubs, et cetera...although i pretty much go for the conversation and music and not to get wasted. i do appreciate a weekend night in on occasion.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if you're looking for a fling or a flavor of the week, please keep moving. you're not gonna find that here.

i like stylish men with ambition. i also have a thing for cunning linguists, in the actual sense of the term.

i find messages rather pointless (in fact, i'm not very fond of digital communication as a whole), so i'd rather meet in person than send messages back and forth trying to convince an e-stranger that i'm cool.