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26 F Hamilton, Ontario, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 19–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 16
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a musician, polyamorous, queer, anarchist, feminist. If you are curious about polyamory and want to know what it is, here's a resource (although not the best. If you are interested in knowing more send me a msg and I can send you the name of a few books):
I am also a big fan of consent! Here's another resource :

I am a dreamer- often have a lot going on inside my head that I don't share, but love hearing about what other people are thinking/dreaming.

I am easy going and love to try new things and experience new places/ new ideas; however, I am introverted so sometimes I try new things hesitantly.

I don't like that on this site you can only list two genders, and that bisexuality/ gay/ straight are that only labels you can use to describe your sexuality.

I also am in a relationship with a primary partner and I am mostly looking for a relationship/relationships with women/trans/ genderqueer folks. That being said, if someone who is a cis man talks to me and seems to be extra special then I will consider.

Also, I consider one of the best ways to get to know me is through my art, so here is my music:
I have happier songs now, but the ones on the bandcamp are really sad so take care listening to them.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to live as sustainably as possible. Trying to offer the most support I can to others. Living life to the fullest with accountability to others. Trying to live without regret or remorse.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, singing, playing music on my various instruments, writing songs, dancing, gardening, being introspective, making delicious food.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I tell me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Brave New World, V for Vendetta, Anything by Derrick Jensen, Anything by Neil Gaiman, Hunter S, Clive Barker and Tom Robbins, Ghost World, Lamb, Jonathon Strange and Mr. Norrell, Great Expectations, Choke, The World Without Us, Abarat, Self, The Wizard of Earthsea
TV: Six Feet Under, Dead Like Me, Dollhouse, Firefly, Angel, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Friends, The L Word, Queer as Folk, Will and Grace, Doctor Who, Torchwood, United States of Tara
Movies: Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Serenity, Secret Window, Pretty in Pink, Le Fabuleau Destin D'Amelie Poulain, City of Lost Children, Run Lola Run, Donnie Darko, Lady in the Water, Blades of Glory, The Ninth Gate, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Pulp Fiction, Harold and Maude, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Black Swan, Dirty Dancing, Mrs. Doubtfire, Shortbus, V for Vendetta, A Very Long Engagement, Mr. Hollands Opus
Music: Hurray for the Riff Raff, indie folk punk, A Hawk and a Hacksaw,The Doors, The Velvet Underground, The Dresden Dolls, Tool, System of a Down, Prince, Mark Knopfler, Billie Holiday, Ella Fitzgerald, Miles Davis, Frou Frou, Pretty Girls Make Graves, The Tea Party, Erik Satie, Yann Tiersen, The Eels, Wax Mannequin, Ani Difranco, TOM WAITS, Fiona Apple, Dark Dark Dark, psydub, psytrance, dubstep, Les Miserables, Sweeney Todd, Wicked, Phantom of the Opera, Regina Spektor, Coleman Hawkins, Parliament-Funkadelic, Tower of Power, Ray Charles, Richard Laviolette, Blackbird Raum, The Weakerthans, most music!
Food: I like almost everything (especially potatoes and chocolate).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The moon, the stars, ukulele, my voice, friends, love, coffee ( I know that's actually seven things.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
existentialism, relationships, support work, consent, sexual assault, accountability, oppression, privilege, equity, music, sex. substance use
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably at home drinking tea and reading a book. Playing my trumpet or ukulele.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
well then it wouldn't be private, would it? :) Some things are better left to mystery.
You should message me if
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You think that we would get along and have things in common. You know about consent or want to know about it. You like hanging out near trees. You like music. You like reading books. You care about the environment.