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33 F Saint Louis, MO

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 32–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 12
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First, contrary to popular belief, I can smile and do quite often. I just don't have any decent pictures of it actually occurring.

Wow, writing about myself. Let's give it a whirl.

I'm definitely open to this whole idea of meeting someone online. I've tried it before and while it hasn't been entirely unsuccessful (it got me some good friends), it made me kind of step away for a while and re-evaluate things. I'm back now, so let's see what happens
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now, I work for an insurance company. I've been here for about a year and a half and I have to say - I love my job. I'm looking into purchasing a house in the next year or two. I love my apartment though, just don't like the money I am not saving.

I'm also trying to learn more every day and keep my mind sharp now that I'm out of school. I graduated with my masters in May of 2009, so I'm trying to keep learning and experiencing new things.

Quit smoking about a month ago...well, sorta. Doing the e-cig thing, but at least I don't smell like smoke.

I'm also trying to find someone. Maybe it's you.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
a lot of different things. I can cook, I am great at finding fun, creative things to do that may be out of the normal scope of activities. I'm a huge Cardinals, Blues, and Mizzou fan. I work out 3x a week and have recently lost about 30 lbs. I'm not where I want to be yet, but I'm getting there. I'm also a really good person and a great listener.

I am also ridiculously good at trivia and knowing the lyrics to a ton of songs. It's a rare gift.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm loud and I talk with my hands. Hey, it's one of the quirks of us Italians.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh wow. It's like having to pick a favorite child. Since I'm not a fan of top 10 lists, I'll just throw some names out there.

Books -- anything historical (preferably biographies or American history), anything nonfiction involving musicians, St. Louis, or true crime. As far as fiction goes, I'm a big fan of Christopher Moore, Chuck Palhaniuk, Stephen King, and Neil Gaiman. I have more books than pairs of shoes (I have like seven pairs of shoes, so that's not saying a lot) and always have one with me.

Movies -- Anything besides chick flicks. I'm serious. I'd rather sit down and watch Reservoir Dogs than have to sit through The Notebook. I'm also really into Fight Club, any Kevin Smith movie (except Jersey Girl -- what the hell was that?!), horror films, independent movies, and documentaries. Basically, if it involves a romantic struggle between two characters, I won't watch it. If it's anything like The Big Lebowski or Office Space, bring it on.

Shows -- I have my shows, believe me. I loved Breaking Bad and Dexter before they ended (sigh). I'm into The Following, Walking Dead, American Horror Story, and nonfiction shows -- Mysteries at the Museum, Pawn Stars, Anthony Bourdain -- that type of stuff.

Music -- Do you have a week? I'm pretty down with anything musically. My tastes are extremely eclectic, ranging from classical to opera to dubstep to Mississippi delta blues all the way up to the music stylings of the Beatles and Lou Reed. I grew up in the 90s, so Pearl Jam and Sonic Youth are always going to have a special place , in my heart. I'm not too into rap or pop music. I love metal -- not just like Metallica, but bands like Slayer, Pantera, Opeth, Emperor, etc.

Food -- I'll try anything once. I don't like pickles, raisins, beets, or cole slaw. Other than that, I'm good. My favorite foods are Italian, Mexican, sushi, BLTs and PBJs.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
aargh, I can't stand lists, but I guess I have to.

1. my family and friends (it counts as 1--my profile, my rules)
2. my car
3. a dwelling of some sort
4. a sport to watch (it's always baseball/football/basketball/hockey season)
5. good conversation
6. my phone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
when I'm going to buy a house, baseball, hockey
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
getting off work at 7, coming home and going to the gym. That's how most of my Friday nights are. I work M-F.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am better at relating to guys than I am to girls.
I'm still overweight, but slowly losing the pounds. Sorry I'm not a twig. Your loss. Not mine.
I am a movie quoter :)
I know the lyrics to TONS of songs and will correct you if you get them wrong.
I'm a grammar stickler.
and finally, I'm slightly obsessed with the police scanner app on my phone.
You should message me if
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you want to know more about me. I promise to respond to any and all correspondence!

PLEASE NOTE - If you are on any drugs harder than marijuana, please do not message me looking for a date. I am all about having a good time, but I have had past relationships with serious drug users that have not worked out well.

Please do not message me if you are looking for a random hookup, if you didn't bother to read my profile, if you are married, if you're looking for someone who is a twig and has the intelligence of a pebble, if you don't have social skills, if you're on drugs.