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23 Brooklyn, NY Trans Man

Trans Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 30
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 5" (1.66m)
Body Type
Buddhism but it’s not important
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Spanish
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a trans guy, and I'm looking for queer-friendly people.

I work out--sometimes.

I'm an INFJ-if you're into Meyers Briggs personality tests.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just graduated with a Political Science major, and took a lot of Women Studies and Chinese classes. I dedicate my life and am passionate about social justice movements. I have just moved to New York to work as a middle school teacher. In the future, I plan to pursue a career in public policy, law, or education.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being an awesome friend, listener, advocate, music-enthusiast/musician (I learn instruments pretty quickly such as drums and guitar), and overall, person.
When I care about someone, I make sure that I show them so.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm Asian. So if you have preexisting judgments or don't prefer my kind, then I won't be wasting my time on you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Tennessee Williams, HP, Hunger Games, Blu's Hanging, Perks of Being a Wallflower, I like plays a lot, and this list is just to name a few.
Movies: 50/50, Donnie Darko, Beginners, Drive, Like Crazy, Moulin Rouge, Paris is Burning
Shows: New Girl, The OC, GoT, Portlandia, Adventure Time, Newsroom, Chuck, Walking Dead, Scandal, Orange is the New Black, Parks and Rec
Food: I'm not very picky with my food :)
Music: A Lot.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My glasses
A good book
My own privacy and space (at times)
My support system/queer/trans/radical communities
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Interesectionalities, feminism/smashing the patriarchy, queer things, politics, music, pugs, the need to fight harder for social justice, and wondering why my facial hair grows so slow.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends, reading, or catching up on sleep. And if not, I am usually having alone time and simply reflecting on my day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I listen to opera music often because it's soothing to me.

Otherwise, I'm a pretty open-book! If you get to talk to me, maybe you'll learn a thing or two you wouldn't expect.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You are comfortable dating a trans person. I don't conflict with your identity and neither do I confuse you. Yes, each trans person has different boundaries for their body. But you must at least be willing to be an open communicator, as I will be, at all points of our interactions.
- You believe in marriage equality/or some form of dismantling the institution of marriage.
- You believe that all genders should be equal.
- You understand the concept of privilege with race, class, gender, sexual orientation, etc.
- You like reading.
- Music and/or other forms of the arts are really important to you.
- You have some kind of passion or aspiration in life that drives you.
- You crave knowledge or you love to learn new things.
- You love politics or believe that politics is important.
- You are not an asshole.

Do not message me if:
- You have some sort of fetish for me.
- We have very low compatibility.