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28 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 21–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:17pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Latin

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My self-summary
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I'm a librarian/archivist who grew up in rural mid-Michigan and Knoxville, TN; you can call me bi-regional. I'm a half-Southern, half-Northern nerdy rural working-class feminist who often feels somewhat out of place in the city, though not enough to complain too much (most of the time). I love a good adventure in most any setting and I love having fun and stimulating people to share such happenings with.
What I’m doing with my life
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I just moved to Seattle, so I'm looking for friends, dates, adventures, lovers, and all that the city has to offer!

Starting projects, exploring my options, always thinking.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to others, carrying on a stimulating and entertaining conversation, sharing, organizing just about anything (that's the librarian/archivist in me), editing, being slightly neurotic (but then again, who isn't?), hosting.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My luxuriously long, curly hair; the large plugs in my earlobes; my clothes, often brightly colored.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Octavia E. Butler, Audre Lorde, Gayle Rubin,
Samuel Delany, Angela Davis, Akilah Oliver, Andrea Smith, Michel Foucault, Anne Carson

Movies: Beetlejuice, Whatever Happened to Baby Jane, Born in Flames, The Women, Drop Dead Gorgeous, Romy and Michelle's High School Reunion, 9 to 5, The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas, Matilda, Aliens, A Nightmare on Elm Street, Titus, Wet Hot American Summer, depressing documentaries, and, of course, anything ever made by John Waters

Music: Dolly Parton, Cher, Kate Bush, Hole, Azealia Banks, Janelle Monae, M.I.A., Fleetwood Mac, Emmylou Harris, Diamanda Galas, Leslie Hall, Tracy Chapman, Billie Holiday, Ella Fitzgerald, They Might Be Giants, Rasputina, Loretta Lynn

Food: I'm a vegetarian, but I'm not an asshole about it. I love trying new cuisine and I'm always up for an adventure.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books/libraries, a cadre of friends, sleep, outside, a quality umbrella, and a decent pen.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Feminism, queer whatnot, Dolly Parton, books, sex, personality rubrics, labor and working class politics, critical race theory and anti-racism, ethnic studies, independent media and publishers, kittens, end times feelings, divas, and so forth.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading, watching something on Netflix, exploring the city, or hanging out with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Every time I go up or down a flight of stairs, I count them.
Every. Single. Time.
You should message me if
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High on my list: people who identify as feminists; people who are comfortable with and embrace a wide range of gender styles, expressions, and presentations; men who are interested in more than simply "masculine" or "straight-acting" guys.

Low on my list: the opposites of the above and anyone who lists anything by Ayn Rand among their favorite books.