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CassidyMauvelous

31 Oakland, CA Cis Man

Cis Man

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 1
Orientation
Queer
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Medicine
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Status
Single
Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi. I'm Cassidy.

My first kiss was in fifth grade, in a Tulsa Embassy Suites bathroom. We had just come out of the swimming pool and tasted like popsicles.

Taurus Sun, Virgo Moon, Cancer Rising; INFP; Type 4 Enneagram.

I've mostly dated female-assigned folks and I'm mostly attracted to femme or androgynous female-identified folks.

I have Good Crazy dreams of living in an elegant, mutually supportive system of friends, lovers, partners, allies and collaborators that breathes and grows with its members. Yum.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as a live-in caregiver and study expressive arts therapy. I'm creating a career as a therapist, especially for elders with dementia. I sometimes do witchy things. I also practice improv theatre. The improv school I go to has biweekly drop-in classes (hint, hint).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
perhaps my long hair or my Oklahoman speech patterns?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
fiction: Butler's Parable of The Sower, Feinberg's Stone Butch Blues, Stamaty's MacDoodle Street
nonfiction: Boal's Hamlet & The Baker's Son, Thomas' What Are Old People For?, Matik's Redefining Our Relationships
plays: Albee's The Zoo Story, Bock's Swimming In The Shallows Guirgis' The Last Days of Judas Iscariot
graphic novels: Saga, Fables Jimmy Corrigan
movies: The Cockettes, Waking Life Me and You and Everyone We Know
music: moe., Charles Mingus, The Be Good Tanyas
tv: RuPaul's Drag Race, Vikings, The IT Crowd
podcasts: Throwing Shade, Judge John Hodgman, RISK!
radio: This American Life; Democracy Now!, KPFA
food: Tempeh! Kale! Aïoli!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my bike (Kimberly Swivel), my bike helmet, smart phone, tarot cards, sugar, and activist and/or therapeutic reading material
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Is it healthier to just let aging happen or to age on purpose? What is "aging on purpose"? Why does the passage of time affect us differently depending on how long we've been around?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
breathing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I plan to cover up my culturally appropriative tattoo.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like playing Ladies Against Humanity, Telestrations, or Fiasco.

You live not too far from Oakland.

You want to talk about this question.