CassidyMauvelous
32 Oakland, CA
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My self-summary
Hi. I'm Cassidy.

One of my best friends and I shared our first kiss in fifth grade, in a Tulsa Embassy Suites bathroom. We had just come out of the swimming pool and tasted like popsicles. Prior to the kiss, she consulted with her council of ladyfriends and I individually consulted with a few trusted manfriend advisors. It was pretty cute. Now, as you and I consult this amorphous Okcupid Beast, I am wondering: where are the Popsicles and Swimming?!

Sun: Taurus side of the Taurus/Gemini cusp; Moon: Virgo; Rising: Cancer; INFP; yin water pig.

I've mostly dated AFAB folks and I'm mostly attracted to femme or androgynous folks. I am non-monogamous. I'm on this dating site looking for folks to date, but if we meet and feel like a non-dating friendship is what we want, then that's cool too!

I have Good Crazy dreams of living in a fabulous, mutually supportive system of friends, lovers, partners, allies and collaborators that breathes and grows with its members. Maybe on an urban-ish farm/arts studio collective. Do you live somewhere like this?
What I’m doing with my life
I work as an elder caregiver and study expressive arts therapy, creating a career as a therapist, especially for elders with dementia. I practice witchcraft, guitar, singing and improv theatre.
I’m really good at
washing dishes, karaoke, public transportation, kissing ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
Perhaps my long hair or occasional Okie vernacular, such as "whipper jawed." This word really can be the best word for certain situations. I say y'all all the time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"If space is love, Professor, then is love space? Or is love something we use to fill space? If time eats the donut, does love eat the hole?" -Tom Robbins

"The idea of art as self expression is historically weird." -Keith Johnstone

"Look, you come here every week / With jigsaw pieces of your past / it's all on little sound bites and voices out of photographs / And that's all yours, that's the guide, that's the map / So tell me, where does the arrow point to? Who invented roses?" -Dar Williams

Since Spring 2015, I've been getting into carnitas burritos after years of being vegetarian. Not sure how long this meat eating will last....
The six things I could never do without
Time and space for: guitar, biking, tarot, masturbation, theatre in various forms, and sugary treats!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why and how does the passage of time effect us differently depending on how long we've been alive? How can we change this in our relationships and communities?
On a typical Friday night I am
At a pretentious academic talk, vegging in front of a screen, makin art in my underwear, or playing with magic
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Someday I plan to cover up my culturally appropriative tattoo with something amazing...probably something tarot related. My understanding of tarot is that it's saturated in cultural appropriation, so it will have to be a really good tattoo.
You should message me if
...you are: a curvy, direct, toppy or switchy femme with bottomless eyes and a sarcastic sense of humor; experienced with non-monogamy; equally into cuddling in bed with a movie or a biking/hiking day trip; maintain an artistic practice; passionate about nesting and growing roots; speak/act up for truth and justice; and are kind.

...you want to play Ladies Against Humanity, DiXit, Telestrations, or Fiasco.

...you want to talk about this question.
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