Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi. I'm Cassidy.
One of my best friends and I shared our first kiss in fifth grade,
in a Tulsa Embassy Suites bathroom. We had just come out of the
swimming pool and tasted like popsicles. Prior to the kiss, she had
consulted with her council of ladyfriends and I individually
consulted with a few trusted manfriend advisors. Now, as you and I
consult this amorphous Okcupid Beast, I am wondering: where are the
Popsicles and Swimming?!
Taurus side of the Taurus/Genimini cusp Sun, Virgo Moon, Cancer
Rising; INFP; yin water pig.
For transparency's sake: I've mostly dated AFAB folks and I'm
mostly attracted to femme or androgynous female or genderqueer
identified folks. I haven't dated anyone monogamously for several
years. I am open to meeting folks for non-dating friendships, but
I'm mostly on here looking for people to date--this is a dating
site after all....
I have Good Crazy
dreams of living in a fabulous,
mutually supportive system of friends, lovers, partners, allies and
collaborators that breathes and grows with its members. Maybe on an
urban-ish farm/arts studio. Yum.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as an elder caregiver and study expressive arts therapy. I'm
creating a career as a therapist, especially for elders with
dementia. I practice witchcraft, guitar, singing and improv
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
, karaoke, public transportation, kissing ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
perhaps my long hair or occasional Okie vernacular, such as
"whipper jawed." This word came out of my mouth recently and it
really was the best word for the situation. It was like a weird
little ghost had crawled out of my Southern/Midwest roots to say
hi. And this little ghost, well she looked like my great grandma
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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"If space is love, Professor, then is love space? Or is love
something we use to fill space? If time eats the donut, does love
eat the hole?" -Tom Robbins
"The idea of art as self expression is historically weird." -Keith
"Look, you come here every week / With jigsaw pieces of your past /
it's all on little soundbites and voices out of photographs / And
that's all yours, that's the guide, that's the map / So tell me,
where does the arrow point to? Who invented roses?" -Dar
Since Spring 2015, I've been getting into carnitas burritos after
years of being vegetarian. Not sure how long this meat eating will
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Time and space for: guitar, biking, tarot, masturbation, theatre in
various forms, and sugary treats
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why and how does the passage of time effect us differently
depending on how long we've been around? (taking this question in
academic, artistic, theological, or philosophical directions).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
breathing in booksmell in between bites of ice cream
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I plan to cover up my culturally appropriative tattoo with
something amazing...probably something tarot related, which I find
funny because all tarot is saturated in cultural appropriation.
You should message me if
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