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32 Oakland, CA Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 11
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and laughing about it
Working on masters program
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi. I'm Cassidy.

One of my best friends and I shared our first kiss in fifth grade, in a Tulsa Embassy Suites bathroom. We had just come out of the swimming pool and tasted like popsicles. Prior to the kiss, she had consulted with her council of ladyfriends and I individually consulted with a few trusted manfriend advisors. Now, as you and I consult this amorphous Okcupid Beast, I am wondering: where are the Popsicles and Swimming?!

Taurus Sun, Virgo Moon, Cancer Rising; INFP.

I've mostly dated AFAB folks and I'm mostly attracted to femme or androgynous female-identified folks.

I have Good Crazy dreams of living in an elegant, mutually supportive system of friends, lovers, partners, allies and collaborators that breathes and grows with its members. Maybe on an urban-ish farm/arts studio. Yum.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as an elder caregiver and study expressive arts therapy. I'm creating a career as a therapist, especially for elders with dementia. I do witchcraft and practice improv theatre. The improv school I go to has twice weekly drop-in classes (hint, hint).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
washing dishes, karaoke, public transportation
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
perhaps my long hair or occasional Oklahoman-isms?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
"If space is love, Professor [Einstein], then is love space? Or is love something we use to fill space? If time eats the donut, does love eat the hole?" -Tom Robbins

"The idea of art as self expression is historically weird." -Keith Johnstone

"Look, you come here every week / With jigsaw pieces of your past / it's all on little soundbites and voices out of photographs / And that's all yours, that's the guide, that's the map / So tell me, where does the arrow point to? Who invented roses?" -Dar Williams

Lately I've been getting into carnitas burritos after years of being vegetarian. Not sure how long this meat eating will last....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
theatre, tarot, masturbation, sugar, a bike, a guitar
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why and how does the passage of time effect us differently depending on how long we've been around?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I plan to cover up my culturally appropriative tattoo with something amazing...probably something tarot related, which I find funny because all tarot is saturated in cultural appropriation.
You should message me if
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