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32 Oakland, CA Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:13pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and laughing about it
Working on masters program
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi. I'm Cassidy.

My first kiss was in fifth grade, in a Tulsa Embassy Suites bathroom. We had just come out of the swimming pool and tasted like popsicles.

Taurus Sun, Virgo Moon, Cancer Rising; INFP.

I've mostly dated AFAB folks and I'm mostly attracted to femme or androgynous female-identified folks.

I have Good Crazy dreams of living in an elegant, mutually supportive system of friends, lovers, partners, allies and collaborators that breathes and grows with its members. Maybe on an urban farm/arts studio. Yum.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as a live-in caregiver and study expressive arts therapy. I'm creating a career as a therapist, especially for elders with dementia. I sometimes do witchy things. I also practice improv theatre. The improv school I go to has biweekly drop-in classes (hint, hint).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
perhaps my long hair or occasional Oklahoman-isms?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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fiction: Butler's Parable of The Sower, Feinberg's Stone Butch Blues, Stamaty's MacDoodle Street
nonfiction: Boal's Hamlet & The Baker's Son, Thomas' What Are Old People For?, Matik's Redefining Our Relationships
plays: Albee's The Zoo Story, Bock's Swimming In The Shallows, Guirgis' The Last Days of Judas Iscariot
graphic novels: Saga, Fables, Jimmy Corrigan
movies: The Cockettes, Waking Life, Me and You and Everyone We Know
music: moe., Charles Mingus, The Be-Good Tanyas
tv: RuPaul's Drag Race, Vikings, The IT Crowd
podcasts: Throwing Shade, Judge John Hodgman, RISK!
radio: This American Life; Democracy Now!, KPFA
food: Tempeh! Kale! Aïoli!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my bike (Kimberly Swivel), bike helmet, phone, tarot cards, sugar, and activist and/or therapeutic reading material
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why does the passage of time affect us differently depending on how long we've been around?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I plan to cover up my culturally appropriative tattoo with something amazing...probably something tarot related, which is funny because all tarot is saturated in cultural appropriation.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to play Ladies Against Humanity, Telestrations, or Fiasco.

You live not too far from Oakland.

You want to talk about this question.