But there are at least three kinds of intimacy other than sexual--emotional, intellectual, physical--and I want more of all of them than I currently have. So here I am.
As for an actual self-summary, I can't do better than my Myers-Briggs type: INFJ. I know that the MBTI is Not Science, but it still describes me very well. Compared to the typical INFJ I'm much more analytical--in college I majored in philosophy and minored in math--but for me, analysis and intuition and empathy are all tools for understanding, and understanding is a tool for helping. And helping is my goal.
When I'm not busy trying to save the world one teenager at a time, I try to save my own sanity by having fun. Good company can make just about anything fun, but activities I especially enjoy include board games, card games, video games, bad jokes, good jokes, listening to music and singing along, sports (playing and watching), and long walks.