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34 M Ann Arbor, MI

My Details

Last Online
Apr 14
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm an INFJ: . That's a better summary of me than anything I could write about myself.
What I’m doing with my life .

Professionally I'm a tutor, specializing in high school math. I love my work even when I hate it. I live in an intentional community with four other humans (ages 30-42), the world's least beagle-like beagle, and the world's most cat-like cat.
I’m really good at
Listening. Learning. Teaching. Wei Wu Wei.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hopefully that I'm smiling. :-) .

They're not the first thing you'll notice, but I've received rather a lot of compliments about my eyelashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Non-Fiction: The Battles That Changed History, Fletcher Pratt; Men Of Mathematics, E.T. Bell; The Story Of Philosophy, Will Durant.

Fiction: "Beggars In Spain", Nancy Kress; The Callahan Chronicles, Spider Robinson; "Dolphin's Way", Gordon R. Dickson; Emergence, David R. Palmer; "The Flowers Of Aulit Prison", Nancy Kress; HPMOR (Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationality), Eliezer Yudkowsky; "The Last Of The Winnebagos", Connie Willis; Starmind, Spider Robinson; "Story Of Your Life", Ted Chiang.

Blogs: Armed And Dangerous (Eric S. Raymond), Asymmetrical Information (Megan McArdle), Easily Distracted (Timothy Burke), In The Pipeline (Derek Lowe), Marginal Revolution (Tyler Cowen and Alex Tabarrok).

Webcomics: Casey And Andy, Digger, Erfworld, A Girl And Her Fed, Irregular Webcomic, Order of the Stick, Questionable Content, Schlock Mercenary, Thunderstruck, XKCD.

Music: Antje Duvekot, Dave Carter and Tracy Grammer, Ellis Paul, Gandalf Murphy and the Slambovian Circus of Dreams, Girlyman, James Keelaghan, James McMurtry, John Gorka, Melissa Ferrick, Noe Venable, The Ragbirds, Richard Thompson, Sons of the Never Wrong, Tom Russell, Vienna Teng.

Movies: Murder By Death, Yellow Submarine, and other such whimsicalities. I don't watch many movies; I never picked up the habit.

TV: Sports, especially baseball. For me sports are like music: a way of being in rhythm. I actively dislike almost all non-sports TV.

Games: Bridge, though I don't get to play often. Euchre. Dominion. Civilization, and most known variants and derivatives thereof, especially Age of Wonders. League of Legends (Jinx!).

Food: Yes please.
The six things I could never do without
(1) Friends.

(2) The Internet, which helps me meet friends and stay in touch with friends, entertains me when none of my friends are around, and teaches me cool new things every day.

(3) Music, which knits up the raveled sleave of care.

(4) Volleyball, my favorite exercise (and, not coincidentally, the only sport I can actually play decently).

(5) Computer games, in which I can immerse myself when I need to turn off reality for a while.

(6) Uh... there is no Thing 6?
On a typical Friday night I am
The first Friday of each month is my house meeting. The next two are games nights. My weekends are much more variable.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I maintain a profile on an online dating website.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating