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34 M Ann Arbor, MI

My Details

Last Online
Aug 17
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm an introvert who loves people and an empath who practices rationality. My highest values are kindness and wisdom. I have a very dry sense of humor. My favorite pastimes include being nice to people, reading (especially philosophy [my vocation is epistemology, especially the epistemology of disagreement], economics, and science fiction), having conversations (preferably while ambulatory), playing strategy games (e.g. bridge, Civilization, Dominion, etc etc), and chasing a ball or frisbee. Oh, and making horrible puns. Have you heard the one about the circular cervidae? No? O deer....

Currently, in addition to seeking Ms Right, I'm looking for new activity partners: tennis, biking, walking, board games, or just about anything that gets me out of the house. Too much introversion is hazardous to my health.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day. .

Also, .

Professionally I'm a tutor, specializing in high school math. I love my work even when I hate it. I volunteer with , which is awesome. I live in a co-op with four other humans, the world's least beagle-like beagle, and the world's most cat-like cat.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Learning. Teaching. Wei Wu Wei.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hopefully that I'm smiling. :-).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I try to view these as recommendations rather than (mere) signalling: if we have similar tastes, you might also enjoy...

Non-Fiction: The Battles That Changed History, Fletcher Pratt; Men Of Mathematics, E.T. Bell; The Story Of Philosophy, Will Durant.

Fiction: "Beggars In Spain", Nancy Kress; The Callahan Chronicles, Spider Robinson; "Dolphin's Way", Gordon R. Dickson; Emergence, David R. Palmer; "The Flowers Of Aulit Prison", Nancy Kress; HPMOR (Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationality), Eliezer Yudkowsky; "The Last Of The Winnebagos", Connie Willis; Starmind, Spider Robinson; "Story Of Your Life", Ted Chiang.

Blogs: In The Pipeline (Derek Lowe), Marginal Revolution (Tyler Cowen and Alex Tabarrok).

Webcomics: Casey And Andy, Digger, A Girl And Her Fed, Irregular Webcomic, Order of the Stick, Questionable Content, Schlock Mercenary, Thunderstruck, XKCD.

Music: Antje Duvekot, Dar Williams, Dave Carter and Tracy Grammer, Ellis Paul, Gandalf Murphy and the Slambovian Circus of Dreams, Girlyman, James Keelaghan, James McMurtry, John Gorka, Les Miserables, Man of La Mancha, Melissa Ferrick, Noe Venable, The Ragbirds, Richard Thompson, Sons of the Never Wrong, Tom Russell, Vienna Teng.

Movies: Murder By Death, Yellow Submarine, and other such whimsicalities. I don't watch many movies; I never picked up the habit.

TV: Sports, especially baseball. (It's a family thing.) Radio works too as long as the announcers are good. For me sports are like music: a way of being in rhythm. I actively dislike almost all non-sports TV; I play computer games instead.

Food: Yes please.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(1) Friends.

(2) The Internet, which helps me meet friends and stay in touch with friends, entertains me when none of my friends are around, and teaches me cool new things every day.

(3) Music, which knits up the raveled sleeve of care.

(4) Volleyball, my favorite exercise (and, not coincidentally, the only sport I can actually play decently).

(5) Computer games, in which I can immerse myself when I need to turn off reality for a while.

(6) Uh... there is no Thing 6?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to communicate.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With friends, most likely playing cards or board games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm autistic.

I'm extremely "high-functioning": I can "pass" (i.e. pretend to be normal) well enough to fool most of the people most of the time. I wasn't even diagnosed until I was in my 20s. But if I seem a little off sometimes, well, now you know why.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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You're intelligent, inquisitive, and don't hate people.