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42 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Today – 4:15am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Hungarian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Small business owner (bar/venue), non-political bicyclist (meaning, I don't yell at the tourists, and I don't own a skintight multicolored onesie with redbull logos all over it), decent cook, artist, raconteur & connoisseur of all things tolerable.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Most/some of the above.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm pretty much 100% musically inclined if that's of any use. Outside of that, I love our city, having been here for 17 years now. I know some good spots - I better take a look and see if some of them have closed, tho... just in case someone calls me out on that.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes are nice, mom says at least. Who knows. Feel free to tell me yourself. If it was 1987, I'd say my asymmetrical skater haircut - but I think those days might be done...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Non-fiction, fiction, anything, really. Sometimes I read the dedication before the back summary. Some I can't get past the forward, some I can't stop re-reading certain paragraphs.

Total lover of film. Going to the movies is something I love to do, but don't do often enough (I'm talking about revivals & special screenings etc, especially hard to resist in NYC). American sadsacks in the 70's is a favorite genre, as is Claustrophobic Sci-Fi. I used to listen to every director's commentary track on every DVD, no matter how dumb, back when Netflix allowed that on their discs. Really enjoying the Mary Hartman, Mary Hartman 320 episode boxset thing that came out last month, so much that I'm only concerned with the fictional Fernwood, OH, and not so much about Sochi and otherwise. Most likely a bad thing.

Total music obsessive. A record person. Extra gigantic and dumb record collection & it's pretty. Lots of Peggy Lee right now, and not totally sure why but lots of thrash metal (kreator/nuclear assault/anthrax/coroner/exodus/voivod?). Arthur Russell always. SONDHEIM.

Food is great. I'm currently 100% vegan, but again, not preachy about it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Summer 2014: Basil, The Flume, Elliot Gould, Moss, Merry Clayton's singing on Gimme Shelter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Clydesdale-driven sleighrides thru the forests of Switzerland on a candlelit trail, also 1976-era Phil Collins.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Varying degrees of out & about, or working on home projects.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Dat's private.
You should message me if
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This awkward resume here strikes your fancy in the slightest or mostest.

...Also if you want to form a band. I'm serious. I think the idea of a band made up of people who awkwardly met on OkCupid first is a gimmick worth exploring. Surely this is also how Fleetwood Mac did it.