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48 Sunnyvale, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45-56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:52pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
English, Chinese
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am originally from Asia, moved to bay area for work 10 years ago. I love reading (mostly non-fiction these days), singing, cooking, dancing (salsa and hip-hop..but no ballroom), music (classical, rock...but no country), operas, concerts, museums, playing piano, movies/DVDs, picnicking/BBQ, dressing up for a night out, swimming, nature/outdoors, hanging out with friends, traveling (have been to many Asian countries, Holland, Germany, AU/NZ.. mostly for work), hiking in forest and I love to eat (have terrific appetite and luckily no need to worry much about weight)!

I am open to any type of good food (a 100% foodie), culture and religions, opinionated yet respect others' point of view (not into debates), warm-hearted, witty (per general feedback:-)), philosophical (with strong logic and sensible complexity), playful, very neat, honest, well-balanced between materialism and spirituality, feminine (well, not at work though), career-minded (working hard during the week), affectionate, passionate, loving, genuine, understanding and compassionate (a long-time donor to several charitable organizations and want to give back more to the society). I believe what goes around comes around so always try to be a better person.

I believe in love and suppose it should be based on compatibility and equal level of intelligence and depth. I am looking for someone with whom I can banter, flirt, cuddle, and talk about any topics…travel together... we are passionate and faithful to each other, we share the same values and build/pursue dreams together. With the right one anything could be fun!

My ideal match: has a good heart and integrity, honest (including all the info in his profile), faithful, reliable, intelligent, career-minded, decent, have a good sense of humor, clean-cut, neat, a bit nerdy, within my desired age range, living within 15 miles away from me. Please do see my desired date's list
What I’m doing with my life
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a hard worker in high-tech sales/PM... working on my next level of career path
reading restlessly
exploring different hiking trails
polishing my green thumb
enjoy dancing with xbox:-)
planning my next trip
seeking a life-time partner and best friend
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
analyzing, observing, listening, catching unspoken messages...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
left handed and well-dressed
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Any good food...
Classical & pop music (switching among KDFC, wild and my mp3 player), light rock
Books: just finished 'growing up bin laden', quite well written, am reading 'steve jobs' (ugh, really can't stand him..)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
--shower & soap (hygiene is very important to me...)
--true love (yes, i believe it's out there..)
--books (the thicker the better)
--good food and soy creamer
--my laptop
--and of course my lovely family
--my herb drinks
--art (music, movies...)...
oops.. there are more than six...:-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything.. the news i read/heard, my work, my family, my friends, life, earth, meta-physics... i try to tame my monkey mind.
You should message me if
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You have a good heart and integrity, honest (including all the info on your profile), intelligent, well-educated, hard-working and career-minded (like me), decent, clean-cut (no tattoo, long hair..), within my desired age range, lives nearby (in 15 miles), and ready for a LTR:-)