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32 F Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 12
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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What I’m doing with my life
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I teach algebra at a public high school in Manhattan. There's a lot to say about teaching so I apologize in advance for that moment on our first date when you're like "does this girl ever pipe down about her job?" Unless you're a teacher too, in which case, let's spend the summer in another country together.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A very good friend tells me that I'm the most grounded person she knows, which I think is pretty coolio.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I smile a lot and I have big eyes. Not like freaky big, normal big.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like all foods, but especially spicy foods.

I read lots of books and watch lots of movies.

Recent reading highlights:
The Goldfinch was amazing.
The Orphan Master's Son was creepy and excellent.
Going Clear was also creepy and excellent.
Endurance: Shackelton's Incredible Voyage was ... also ... creepy and excellent and perfect reading for the polar vortex.
Always on the hunt for good fiction, good sci-fi.

I am always also reading: books about teaching adolescent brains, especially if those brains have some flavor of learning disability and the teaching is connected to algebra/geometry. And NYMag, and the New Yorker (so hard to keep up).

I love:
-Talking Heads, David Byrne, Radiohead, Bob Marley, The Band, Bob Dylan, (those are required for being alive I think, right?) plus Neil Young, Built to Spill, Tribe, Stephen Malkmus, Beach House, The Beta Band, Dirty Projectors, Pavement
-Best in Show
-all Werner Herzog
-There Will Be Blood
-UYD for life.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I get six!?!?!?!??!?!!!
-food, water, shelter ( = one thing)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. to be better at my job
...the hiccups plans next meal
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
editing my OkCupid profile until it is absolutely perfect.

more likely: getting into bed at 8:05PM because I am an exhausted grandma, or doing something outdoors if it's nice, or drinking multiple whiskey beverages with teacher friends because, hey, we've earned it, or cooking something at home, or perhaps all of the above or perhaps none. it just depends, doesn't it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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get off me!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you have big brains. The bigger the better. Ahem. Outsmart me. Also kindness and silliness, and an edge of some sort, and a healthy relationship with family.
I'm a fan of meeting in person as opposed to email chases. Dates are usually fun, and even if they're not fun they're at least interesting and make for good stories. But let's get real: the only way to gauge chemistry is in person. All the rest of this stuff is just a time-filler. I tend to be pretty direct and honest. I like that in other people too.
I also like eye contact, and being outside, and other things that are good for relieving the stress of the day. Let's hang out and see.