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40 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:56pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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People who know me well tell me I'm the happiest person they know, that I don't seem to have any anger inside me (true...knocking on wood...), that I probably do lots of yoga (never have), and that I'm also one of the pickiest people they know (in a good way, I like to think--open minded but ultimately selective about everything).

I think life is magical.

I'd love to meet someone who wouldn't roll their eyes at a statement like that (or at anything, really), and who understands this and the concepts of peace and joy--and life's possibilities--as profoundly as I do.

I love dancing, and am probably one of the world's best (and only?) 80s interpretive dancers, although I've done many other forms (swing, salsa, blues, tango, soul, house, hip-hop, etc.), too.

I also enjoy cooking, bicycling and walking around San Francisco, farmers markets, dining, and checking out various random and cultural events in this amazing city.

In past lives I've been a heavy metal guitarist (high school), writer (short stories and plays, a screenplay), classical music composer (in my mid-20s), and had careers in editing, recruiting, sales/marketing, grant writing, program management, and presently run an editing company.

I also don't belch, snore, spit on sidewalks, or have morning breath (I'm told)...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to lead a fully-expressed life, socially (connecting with old and new friends), professionally (running a small business), and spiritually (everything I do, hopefully), all the while enjoying the journey and trying to make the world a more positive place, one encounter/ situation at a time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1) Making everything fun/ seem like an adventure. (One of the best compliments I've ever received).
2) Being inspired and inspiring others. (I've motived friends to start small businesses, move abroad, and generally follow their dreams).
3) Being happy/content.
4) Smiling a lot, and meaning it.
5) Making lists.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look like my pics ;), and/or my smile and natural energy and inner peace/happiness, and perhaps my style.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS (Authors): Oscar Wilde, Edgar Allen Poe. Love biographies.

MOVIES: Star Wars (IV-VI), The Karate Kid, Groundhog Day, Amadeus, Saturday Night Fever

TV: Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Downton Abby, Mad Men, True Blood, White Collar, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Entourage, Arrested Development, Psych, Anthony Bourdain, Rick Steeves

MUSIC: 80s (Michael Jackson!), 70s, 60s (Beatles), Stevie Wonder, gypsy jazz (Django Reinhardt), and classical (Beethoven, Richard Strauss, Gershwin, Johann Strauss, Jr., Mozart)

FOOD: Whatever I cook myself or with friends, and artisan pizza (Little Star, Beretta, Patxi's...).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My connection with my spirit.
2) My curiosity. (I constantly look up things on Wikipedia, etc.)
3) A peaceful home environment.
4) A shower. (Therefore have never been to Burning Man, plus I'm too busy living life on my terms here ;).
5) Dancing.
6) A pull-up bar.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I used to think (and read) a lot more, which eventually led me to the realization that life is better spent being and doing (and thinking only to whatever extent it helps you do what inspires you).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...anywhere in the city, probably with friends at an event, party, or get-together, then coming home late and watching Little House on the Prairie or Full House.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd love to be asked out. (I did mention I'm an idealist :). I like to turn stereotypes around on their head. I think the remake of Footloose should have been with a female lead, maybe even a lesbian, who's interested in the smalltown minister's daughter.
You should message me if
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You want to get a reply, because I follow The Golden Rule, and you do, too. :)

BONUS: You think you can make a romantic, authentic connection with someone without drinking.