Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a queer femme in a loving, committed, non-possessive and open
relationship. I value kindness, curiosity, gratitude and empathy in
others and strive for them in myself every day.
I recently moved back home to Oakland after 7 sweet years of
country living in North Carolina. Glad to be home.
I am a writer and photographer. And political organizer. And
occasionally, professional cupcake baker.
I am partnered with a biological male and we are raising a seven
year old son together. I have been non-monogamous most of my adult
life. It just always made sense for me, sorta like being queer.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Telling stories, making photographs, delighting in my son, cooking
for beloveds, making music, walking my sweet dog by the river,
procrastinating yoga class...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
conversation, throwing parties, traveling, cooking for large
numbers of people, organizing demonstrations, making pretty things,
going with the flow, reorganizing closets!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmm, I do not know. Maybe my shoes. I wear a lot of fabulous
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books I have loved lately: Unbroken, by Laura Hillenbrand, The
Disappeared, by Kim Echlin, By Nightfall, by Michael Cunningham,
Just Kids, by Patti Smith, The Year of Magical Thinking, by Joan
Didion, The Book of Questions, by Pablo Neruda, in which he asks:
Is the yellow of the forest the same as last year's?
I love Nina Simone, Joni Mitchell, Bob Dylan, Ani DiFranco, Sean
Hayes, Patti Griffin, Michael Franti and oh so many more...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
places that I want to travel to...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually really happy that it is friday night.
Who are you looking for?
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