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annabful

31 F Minneapolis, MN

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:02pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I think I'm pretty great! I am naturally curious and tend to connect with others with little effort. I am always looking to expand and grow. I am at times accused of being a bit hippie-dippie/kumbaya/naive, but I think what people mean when they say that is I am grounded spiritually, I respect nature, and I love really hard. I don't eat granola, that stuff is not actually good for you :) I am an out of the box thinker and I find humor in as much as possible. Despite the light heartedness though, I am politically educated and aware, and take global social justice issues quite seriously. Humility and empathy are two of my most important values. And paleo eating. Yes.

More than "looking for love" (shouldn't really have to look too hard something that is everywhere, right?), I am looking to spend time with great, energetic, open-minded, free spirited, truth-seeking people who make me laugh. I'm a little tiny bit introverted, but I've realized I need human connection - intellectual, physical, emotional - to really be alive. Thus, I'm open to going on dates or just hanging out as friends, and also open to exploring something deeper if it develops.

Though I am open, it will take you time to know me. I am always pleasant and conversational but it takes a special person truly interested in me and a master at listening to uncover the hidden, most beautiful parts. I do reserve those parts for the privileged few. Perhaps you?

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*Note: I chose to put "bisexual" on my profile because I guess it suggests I am also interested in women, but to be honest I don't go around calling myself bi. I also don't like the term, because it still refers to a gender binary which I don't agree with. I tend to be attracted to people that attract me, and I have had the luxury of not having to worry too much about how to identify.

It should be further noted that I practice happy, ethical non-monogamy. If it is important to you to monogamize, I may still really like you as a person but we won't work out dating. It's another pretty important value to me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Isn't that a funny question? I am just living it, trying to do so as well as possible. I take all my relationships very seriously and I love fiercely. I consider that at the root of life's purpose (fierce love), and I hope my life's work reflects it. I currently work in public health and conduct research. I dream of a society that allows all people access to good healthcare, but is healthier to start with in our infrastructure, food supply, and general way of being. I work hard and put all my positive energy into it as possible. I am thinking of maybe going back to school medical anthropology (the study of cultural concepts of wellness), so I'm using these years to position myself properly to achieve that goal.

I have a lot going on usually, but I try to be busy with the important stuff (volunteering, creative projects, friends and family) versus the mundane (you know some people can spend entire days just complaining!?).

I moved home to MN a few years ago after many years away and I'm loving it. I try to spend a lot of time outdoors camping or hiking, and we are lucky to live in a beautiful place in that regard! BWCA = best. I try to get out of town as much as I can though, there is a lot of world to learn from.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to other people's stories with total fascination, singing in private, making pies, and being a beginner at a lot of different things (like playing the guitar, yoga, and making movies). I don't make pies anymore because I have not eaten wheat in almost a year :( Sometimes I'm the loudest laugher in the room, which is fun. Oh! I'm also super good at getting places without GPS. And making friends out of strangers. I really shine in places I've never been to before. I'm getting to be pretty good at push-ups, after much struggle. I'm also not too bad at bragging about my many talents.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically, usually my eyes I guess. Or maybe my fab hair. At least that's what gets commented on. But if we are talking about "me," it's nearly always my "empathic spirit," as a friend once defined it. Or that I'm hilarious (that's actually true).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Lately I have been reading and learning a lot about the American healthcare system (and how it came to be that we have such problems providing equitable care to our people) as well as nutrition science (and how it came to be that the majority of our population is living/dying on toxic manufactured food). I probably need some fiction in my life, so recommendations welcome! I dig weird dystopian future stuff. I am really into film, and I am making my first one this year! Wish me luck. Bonus if you love wacky foreign or avant-garde film (eg Maya Deren), but I still love a mindless action thriller. Musically lately I'm into folk/bluegrass or other singer/songwriter artists. I have broad musical taste though and I bond with people a lot by sharing music. I am a sustaining member of The Current. I recently got into electronic/techno/house music, and I have an ongoing love affair with Latin music. Both mostly because I love to DANCE (such a bonus if you dance!) Cooking is one of my greatest loves. I try to make as much of my own food as possible, which is an ongoing creative outlet. I don't eat most grains anymore, but I tend to forget that in the presence of delicious sushi or, even more likely, really good beer. If I could live anywhere just for the food, it might be Japan. Or Thailand, or India.. somewhere in Asia anyway!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, wine, intellectual intercourse, baths, belly-laughter, and making out. Well, those are six things I wouldn't want to do without, anyway...

Ok: SO MANY PEOPLE have written me messages like "hey, i wanna have brain sex with you." So, that is not cool, and not funny... mostly just weird. I try not to complain a lot (see above), but that one is getting to me. Please refrain.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Social justice issues, food, my latest creative project, and how much I admire my friends. How to talk social justice issues in a passive-aggressive culture (MN is weird). How grateful I am to have such a good life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Decompressing. Usually at home, usually with vino. I love my Friday nights. Seriously, do not be offended if I blow you off on a Friday. I'm probably bathing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A lot of the time, I have no idea what I'm talking about.

"My heart is a flower that blooms every hour."
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating
You should message me if
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You're self-assured and content with yourself, you have important, interesting, or funny things to say, you don't approach dating as a numbers game and/or employ a checklist of 'deal breakers' when getting to know someone, orrrr you have a favorite part of Minnesota you want to tell me about that I might not be aware of (please do share!).

Or if you'd like to dance late into the night with me to Stevie Wonder.

Although I am against the concept of 'dealbreakers', in practice I'd like to set a few standards. Please spare me my time if you: are bitter, have unresolved anger management issues, have sweeping generalizations about women and/or Minnesotan women you'd like to apply to me, or would be prone to using the word 'bitch' the first time you write to me.

I do not have a lot of expectations for what kind of relationship I will form with the next person I meet but I would like it to be a positive, sharing, happy, loving experience.