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30 Seattle, WA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 26
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
When drinking
Judaism, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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If an old man likes it, chances are I do as well.

This includes but is not limited to: musicals, Scrabble, witty banter, cribbage, podcasts (This American Life, The Moth, Serial), record stores and records, glasses, Seattle history, maps, singing, whiskey, and pub quizzes.

Strong dislikes: passive-aggressive behavior, bad grammar, shopping malls (I have a phobia), and libertarianism
What I’m doing with my life
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Finding good friends in unexpected places. Trying to be some form of an adult.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
puns, trivia, crossword puzzles, telling stories, smizing, parallel parking, reading out loud, accidentally learning all the words to pop songs.
The first things people usually notice about me
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A loud laugh, dry wit, and big blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite authors include Jeffery Eugenides, Sarah Vowell, Salman Rushdie, Jonathan Safran Foer, David Sedaris, and Jhumpa Lahiri.

A Fish Called Wanda or The Princess Bride will lure me out of any sort of unhappy mood and E.T. will always scare me. The Station Agent is definitely on the top 10 list. Anything Mel Brooks touches is gold in my book.

I watch entirely too much television on the internet, but The Wire, The West Wing, and Arrested Development are probably my favorites. And I love Jeopardy! Nothing sets up a good night quite like nailing the Final Jeopardy! question.

I have not seen Game of Thrones. I know I need to.

My music taste is very easily influenced. It tends toward indie rock bands but I have soft spots for 60s-era folk, showtunes, and Top 40. Old and current favorites include: The Mountain Goats, Simon & Garfunkel (and Simon), Bob Dylan, The National, Pete Seeger, Neutral Milk Hotel, Patsy Cline, Bruce Springsteen, Neko Case. My tolerance for cheesy pop music is probably higher than most.

I love food. If I haven't had it before, I will probably love it even more. Regular cravings include Ethiopian food, waffles, and New York pizza.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
people who know me well and call me out on bull pucky, a comfortable pair of sneakers, folk songs, cabin weekends, laughter, and sarcasm
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how small Seattle is, my next meal, the chapter names of the memoir I have yet to write
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working? Having a beer with friends? Going to a show? Reading? All of these things have happened on recent Fridays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I read the New York Times wedding announcements every single week. Not because I'm particularly romantic but because occasionally I see someone I vaguely know and it's exciting.

I have a strong personality and a lot of opinions but I don't always like to take the lead.
You should message me if
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you notice details, you get turned on by witty repartee, you enjoy knowing about current events and politics even if you don't always like discussing them, you are equally at home in a dive bar and a museum.

or if you want to introduce me to your favorite beer or whiskey or cuisine and see where things go.

if you don't vote, don't bother contacting me. we can't be friends.