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48 Toronto, Ontario, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 36–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
Yesterday – 3:51am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Here is how I summarize myself: fun, funny, rational, questioning, smartish, playful, kind, pretty organized, friendly, pragmatic, silly, vaguely aspirational and a frugal bon vivant.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in publishing, which is at times demanding, but never boring. I'm a single mother to a lovely young lad, job description same as above, plus being a sounding board for his ambitions to start a company that will "save the Earth." I also enjoy interacting with adult humans, athough I am liable to make the conversation about books one way or another.
I’m really good at
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I'm a decent cook, a decent Scrabble player. I try to be a decent human being.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I notice that people never tell me this! What a narcissistic project it would be to canvass everyone I know to find out. What devious means could I use to find out this intriguing piece of vital info?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Recent books I've enjoyed are: A Visit from the Goon Squad (Egan), Gulp (Roach), Little Failure (Shteyngart). I have a soft spot for 19th century lit, although I read mostly current books. Fiction, biography, history, current events, cookbooks, etc. Slowly but enjoyably accompanying Knausgaard on his "Struggle." Am always questioning whether being a generalist is ultimately a good thing, but usually conclude that I yam what I yam.

TV: I haven't had cable for a couple of years and I don't miss it except for awards shows and the opportunity to watch a sporting contest now and again. There's always Netflix, and I'm currently catching up on Homeland (wondering when Season 4 will be available on dvd). My boss has got me hooked on The Honourable Woman, although I have no idea what's going on half the time and am almost guaranteed a nightmare after each episode.

Films: I've fallen behind with the current cinema and I do miss it. I love films with subtitles and comedies like Zoolander, and something Bourne-y now and again. Documentaries. I liked Boyhood and This Is the End. I forgot almost everything about the Lego Movie other than it was loud.

Music: I don't like blues (although blues-based rock, yes). But everything else genre-wise I'm open too. I never get tired of Bach, and I like a lot of pop even though I hate a lot too. The CBC and Radio-Canada and Indie 88 are the stations we listen to here.

Food: I like food. It's dorky but I never get tired of grocery shopping. I've had to adapt my cooking practices to be mostly about how fast I can get it on the table, but when I have the time I enjoy being more adventurous. I appreciate having lots of colleagues at work to help me when I get the baking urge.
The six things I could never do without
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1. my kooky kid
2. my kooky cookbooks
3. parmigiano reggiano plus red wine
4. smells like coffee, woodsmoke, the spring melt, leeks in butter
5. the world of the senses in general
6. my taxidermy studio (joke! joke!)
You should message me if
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you're smart, kind, sane, good-looking, confident. I'm allergic to dogs so if you can't imagine life without them you might as well look elsewhere. (Besides, you can totally pick up at the dog park.) And I wouldn't respond to anyone without a photo. Fair's fair.