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33 • San Jose, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 9:37pm
- Hispanic / Latin, White
- 5′ 5″ (1.65m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Catholicism, and laughing about it
- Libra, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
My lone tattoo is of a semicolon.
Oh, and if it is meaningful to you, I'm an INFJ (which, according to the internet, is the official unicorn of the Meyers-Briggs).
I like being outdoors, and hiking and/or strolling in particular; my favorite nearby spots are Almaden Quicksilver, the Alviso Marina, Mission Peak, Fall Creek, and Wilder Ranch.
I work in communications at a university research center and I spend many of my waking hours crafting pithy 140 character poems also known as tweets.
I've been to 40 of the 50 states--including a four-year stint living in gorgeous Providence, RI--but I have never left the continent. Lately I've been fantasizing about visiting Portugal.
I am very close to my family and friends, and I consider myself to be moderately social. I pride myself in my loyalty to my loved ones because they're the greatest!
MUSIC: lately I've been listening to Kate Bush, Arthur Russell, This Mortal Coil, Angel Olsen, and Loretta Lynn.
MOVIES: Susperia, Badlands, Rebecca, No Country for Old Men, Working Girl, Don't Look Now, Raising Arizona, Arsenic and Old Lace. I watch romcoms, suspenseful movies, weird documentaries. I love a shocking expose.
TV: Mad Men, Intervention, Orphan Black, Les Revenants, Top of the Lake, The Leftovers, UK Skins, Teen Mom, Louie, etc.
FOOD: Favorites include burritos, thai food, brussels sprouts, carrots, clementines, coconut milk, chipotles in adobo sauce, kombucha, white cake with white icing, pungent cheeses, brewer's yeast, arugula, pureed soups, tahini, ethiopian food, deep dish pizza, etc. I am deep in the throes of perfecting the art of cooking for one!
If out: I am partial to smallish gatherings (particularly if there's a fire pit!), low-stakes dance parties, shows, board games, movies, readings with free food, people watching, bookstores, etc. I recently did my first night hike, and it was v magical!
If in: watching a movie, reading, eating odds and ends, etc.
The most romantic thing to me is an A++ brain-level connection/feeling "lit up" around another person.
You're open to the possibility of meeting a life partner (since that's what I'm looking for in the long term). I'm not prowling for hook ups or into coupling with couples, but I'm always down to make new friends.
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