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41 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 21
Middle Eastern, White
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Other, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Has cats

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My self-summary
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I am a pretty motivated person and I love taking advantage of everything this city has to offer. I also have been known to waste time on facebook while watching endless episodes of whatever TV show I happened to be hooked on thanks to Netflix.

I do work for myself. I am a 3d and 2d designer and I love what I do. If you have a love of the arts, museums etc. That's a huge plus as well. ;)

I appreciate the geeky things in life on many spectrums. Neil Gaiman is one of my heroes. (he wrote American Gods, Neverwhere, Coraline, and many others) I am also a foodie. I love to cook healthy meals (healthy does not have to mean tasteless) . I work out. A lot. Usually about 6 days a week. I really love it.. No, seriously.. I do. It took me a very long time to find exercise that I really loved and I finally found it. Various dance aerobics classes and biking do it for me. I am also always on a search for great healthy recipes to try. Any suggestions?

Yes, I love to travel. I have been to many cities and countries. I will talk about them ad nauseam. We can save that for a later time. =) For now I would love to hear where you have been that has inspired you? What is the one place that you would love to go back to with a significant other? What place have you not been to, that you would love to spend a vacation?

If any of this resonates, strikes a chord or you find yourself saying "yeah me too!" then feel free to send me an email.
What I’m doing with my life
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Always planning my next trip. Designing and thinking of new things to do with my free time.

Teaching WERQ dance fitness

Reading "Skin Games" Jim butcher
I’m really good at
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Anything design related. Listening.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love Breaking Bad, Doctor who, Torchwood, Dexter, Buffy, Firefly,Mad Med, True Blood, Lost,Anderson Cooper, Daily Show, Colbert and any sort of movies. I love movies.. even cheesy ones and action flicks.

I love musicals, theater and ballet.. don't worry if you don't like these things, I have girlfriends to go with. =)

Just about to read the next installment in the Dresden files.

Pizza and vanilla cupcakes are my weakness.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I do alot of introspection. I want to be the best me I can.
Although I don't spend a lot of time thinking about this, but I'm curious why some guys on this site think it's endearing to take a photo of themselves bare chested in a bathroom. Just a hint. It's not endearing or sexy. It's just weird.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It wouldn't be private then, would it?
You should message me if
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you want to chat and get to know each other. Just a note, I will not respond to winks. Please have the courtesy to take the time to at least write a sentence to me.