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36 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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I drink whiskey, write and hack.

Even though the blog-turned-book-deal craze ended years ago, there are two Google Docs with half-thought-through notes that I still update. At this point, they mostly taunt me.

Right this moment, I don't know where my keys are. Probably.

The best window view I know is the view from seat 10A landing at Washington National. Somewhere in this city is the roof deck that has an even more dramatic view, and I will not rest until it is found.

My favorite starting poker hand is KQ, and I riffle my chip stack incessantly. Do not take this to mean I am actually good at poker. It's more that I fidget.

I believe details matter.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've been a hacker, an actor, an engineer, a fed, a bar manager, a pilot, a jetsetter, a baker, and, a very long time ago, a gas station attendant. Right now, I am a cliché.

That is: I'm a new-ish New York resident on OKC. I've moved around a lot; since 2010 it's been mostly DC (notable for its concentration of grad degrees), a good bit of Atlanta (better than you think, Yankee! There are porches and neighborhood festivals everywhere), a fair amount of small-town England (and a life bookended by curry and sausage), and a little San Francisco (to visit nerds and spend time in nature).

Betting on this being stable for a while, though. I’m at my best when helping something new be built, and playing some part in its construction -- even if it's a small and non-obvious part. For a while that meant startups, but after three in a row, it's time to apply that elsewhere: working with creative types instead of just technical/analyticals, contributing to a new city and neighborhood. It's gonna be great.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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More often than not, indulging a bad Hulu habit (though, man, has their selection fallen off a cliff). When I have the patience to watch a movie, the "offbeat black comedy" section usually satisfies. Mostly Internet radio, indie channels; the loss of hit me hard but Songza picked up the slack and helps me get through the day cleanly. I don't know the venues up here yet; if you're a DC exile as well, help me translate: I spent a lot of time at RNR over 9:30, and some of the best shows I saw recently were at Tropicalia. What does that make me now?

Hands-down, no-apologies, current top book: The Four and Twenty Blackbirds Pie Book, Emily & Melissa Elsen. I'd name others, but why do you need anything else?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good knife.
A great whisky.
Exactly one cup of coffee a day.
Grammar. Go ahead, criticize my use of em-dashes.
And of course the Internet overbrain, in all of its many bright and pulsating delivery mechanisms.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out somewhere with friends, not out, or in another city. So in short: this question gives you no information.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You'll get the child actor story in good time. But it's one of my better ones, so I prefer telling it in person.