I'm very ambitious and creative, good at a lot of things, and often bite off more than I can chew. I live with my (male) partner, my 13-year-old daughter, a couple of housemates, and two cats. I'm a professional organizer and occasional artist. I used to be a writer and editor, and I have four books published. I struggle a bit with my health/energy and stress levels, but overall I tend to be optimistic and enjoy life in general. I rarely have enough money, but I haven't had a "real job" for about 15 years, and I like it that way.
I'm looking for a not-too-intense, yet affectionate and supportive, secondary relationship, mainly because my boyfriend has a lower sex drive than I do, and over the last seven monogam-ish years I've often found myself quite frustrated. However, I am not looking for random hookups with strangers, no matter how hot you are. So if you message me, please have some common interests in mind that we share.
P.S. I am looking for a lover with my boyfriend's wholehearted approval. If we hit it off, you'll be expected to meet him eventually.