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40 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:12pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Danish (Fluently), German (Okay), Swedish (Okay), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am Dane on vacation until the 30th of January, and would really like to hang out with locals, for a more "real" SF/Oakland experience. I am living with friends in a tech/social outreach/anti-gentrification collective in Oakland, but trying to get as much around as possible, well here goes:

Hello world! I am glad to be here, in this wonderful place, with such great variety of life, options, and purpose! So much fun to be had, and endless stuff to learn! Wuhu! I don't want this ride to end - ever - and I wonder where it's all going, and what's coming after. Looks like there is a biological imperative to form a loving and dedicated relationship - and a human component to satisfy - to really live life to the fullest - hence:
Wherefore art thou, woman? OKC?
Give me a call / nudge / like / message - I am an awesome entity, and you shouldn't miss this chance to interact.
What I’m doing with my life
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Nowadays it's a daily dose of yoga, followed by chores, sliding into work, slipping into fun, and ending up hanging out with friends. These days are good.

Work wise, I have found a niche between fair trade, developing countries issues, geology, engineering and IT.

I work mostly as a project manager, where my skils to bring things to completion with all i's dotted, and all t's slashed, to perfection, come in handy, so there's is no sloppy stuff handed down when the project goes into "bread and butter" work. Ideally, that's when I leave, and find another challenge.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
communicating and having fun with animals, and having an informed opinion on most matters, I talk and laugh a lot, when I am not reading or immersed in an work related problem to slew out
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
there doesn't seem to be an "off" switch - to the smile, energy overflow, and stream of ideas.

I am not sure, maybe it's something else, maybe a nice guy with a complete disregard for normal behavior and way of seeing things. I am an anarchist through and through.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Here's a few rather random drops, left in the pond of my mind:

Books - I have read thousands:
John Steinbeck: The Grapes of Wrath (made me cry)
Peter F. Hamilton: The Night's Dawn triology (best read ever)
Henry Miller: Sexus, Plexhus, Nexus triology (set me free)
William Gibson: Neuromancer (sparked my young imagination)
Ayan Rand - just to piss people of, and because she has some valid points

Movies - I have seen thousands:
The Coen Brothers
Ridley Scott
Wim Wenders

Series - I have pretty much stopped this activity:
Breaking Bad
Orange is the New Black
The Muppet Show

Music - from death metal, over electronica to world and classical:
Led Zeppelin
Pink Floyd
visit and support

Food - green juice? Yes please:
spicy - home cooked - vegetarian preferred (animal rights issues)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could never do without my good health. So I do a yoga class every day. It helps with everything. The body is constructively built up, and the mind gets a much better place to live in. I also cook a lot, mainly raw food or vegetarian yummy stuff.

I need to feel I am right in what I spend my time with work wise . I am not trying to be morally superior, but I need to follow my own ethical compass. So I've chosen water supply, waste water management, fair trade, and IT development within those areas as my profession.

I need to keep learning to stay mentally alive and to keep growing. So I try to set aside time for reading, and try to challenge myself with new problem areas all the time.

I love music and dancing, and try to follow my own nose in those regards. I have developed a taste for really underground music and venues and travel far to get a good worthwhile experience.

I also value quiet times and prioritise heading deep into nature more and more.

I miss the feeling of belonging and unity, that comes from a good and close relationship with someone who loves you back. Maybe I feel a little unclear about what kind of woman I am looking for, and that's maybe because I feel a little unclear myself, so I stay open, careful and optimistic about the whole thing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at home, chilling out after a long week, getting ready for a great Saturday+Sunday
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
really has no limits face-to-face, but for here, let's put down: spiders scares the bejeezus out of me, whenever they pop up in unexpected places
You should message me if
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You have stayed fit, kept your ambitions growing with your capabilities, still have a sweet disposition, and want an equal partnership with a man like me. You want to travel, live abroad for long periods of time, start a family, and you never give up. If you're nothing like that, but can love me for being so, you still have a chance.

And I guess you need a solid dose of patience, with a blabber mouth like me, if you've made it all the way down here!

I am hanging out in San Francisco and Oakland for about two weeks, and then heading to Denmark. I'd really like to meet up with some likeminded and have some fun. I hanging out near hackerspaces